http://www.datingsecretsformen.com NYC Dating Coach Stephen Nash's Blog Tue, 24 Aug 2010 17:44:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 en http://www.datingsecretsformen.com http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/images/favicon.jpg http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/03/30/how-to-get-a-new-girlfriend-aka-how-to-deal-with-a-break-up/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/03/30/how-to-get-a-new-girlfriend-aka-how-to-deal-with-a-break-up/#comments Tue, 30 Mar 2010 18:19:13 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2297 It was basically one year ago today that I suffered the worst break-up of my life. I cannot compare it to anything else I've experienced in my life frankly. It also involved a devastating betrayal (hard to say, harder to experience). I want to tell you a little bit about this, AND to share the ways I got through it. ]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/03/30/how-to-get-a-new-girlfriend-aka-how-to-deal-with-a-break-up/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/26/why-you-should-be-saying-lets-just-be-friends/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/26/why-you-should-be-saying-lets-just-be-friends/#comments Tue, 26 May 2009 14:31:09 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=1709 It seems completely, totally, absolutely clear to me now...the single thing most important in finding a lasting, healthy relationship is friendship. How to get a girlfriend starts with a friendship. I am single now, and at times I find myself trying on the old PUA thinking. It usually begins when I see an attractive woman, and I feel that chemical release of physical/sexual interest. Of course, this is relatively meaningless in the big picture - as I've learned.]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/26/why-you-should-be-saying-lets-just-be-friends/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/22/reboundrepair-or-why-you-shouldnt-jump-from-one-relationship-to-another/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/22/reboundrepair-or-why-you-shouldnt-jump-from-one-relationship-to-another/#comments Fri, 22 May 2009 15:06:13 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=1699 I broke up with my girlfriend. It's been rough. Part of the deal in any break-up is the inevitable need to rebound. Or, to get someone else as soon as possible. Or, to secure validation (now lost) from a new person so I can stop the pain. Rebounds happen ALL THE TIME. In fact, for most people, it's a normal occurrence. The less secure, the lower the self-esteem, the more likely to jump from a broken, ended relationship to another one...which will inevitably end badly - as it was constructed on broken ground. It makes sense, doesn't it? So, I no longer call them "rebounds" I call them "repairs".]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/22/reboundrepair-or-why-you-shouldnt-jump-from-one-relationship-to-another/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/09/17/dr-stephen-nash-dating-coach-notes-from-my-1-on-1-work-with-guys/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/09/17/dr-stephen-nash-dating-coach-notes-from-my-1-on-1-work-with-guys/#comments Wed, 17 Sep 2008 19:40:21 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/blog/2008/09/17/dr-stephen-nash-dating-coach-notes-from-my-1-on-1-work-with-guys/ Hey man - I've recently had a rush of 1-on-1 coaching work here and it occurred to me to write a little bit about my observations of the common challenges I see guys facing (long sentences anyone?). I guess it's the nature of how I advertise my social coaching as not being an in-field "pick-up artist" training course that yields me less students than say some other company, BUT I also usually get very cool, more normal guys too.]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/09/17/dr-stephen-nash-dating-coach-notes-from-my-1-on-1-work-with-guys/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/08/29/finding-the-right-women-for-you-aka-not-me/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/08/29/finding-the-right-women-for-you-aka-not-me/#comments Fri, 29 Aug 2008 15:43:57 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/blog/2008/08/29/finding-the-right-women-for-you-aka-not-me/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/08/29/finding-the-right-women-for-you-aka-not-me/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/04/14/getting-that-one-special-girl-part-ii/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/04/14/getting-that-one-special-girl-part-ii/#comments Mon, 14 Apr 2008 17:00:58 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/blog/2008/04/14/getting-that-one-special-girl-part-ii/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/04/14/getting-that-one-special-girl-part-ii/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/04/07/getting-that-one-special-girl/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/04/07/getting-that-one-special-girl/#comments Mon, 07 Apr 2008 16:44:21 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/blog/2008/04/07/getting-that-one-special-girl/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/04/07/getting-that-one-special-girl/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/03/21/from-bachelor-to-boyfriendor-something-to-think-about-during-march-madness/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/03/21/from-bachelor-to-boyfriendor-something-to-think-about-during-march-madness/#comments Fri, 21 Mar 2008 19:54:30 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/blog/2008/03/21/from-bachelor-to-boyfriendor-something-to-think-about-during-march-madness/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/03/21/from-bachelor-to-boyfriendor-something-to-think-about-during-march-madness/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/01/21/my-mousepadand-other-musings-from-my-desk/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/01/21/my-mousepadand-other-musings-from-my-desk/#comments Mon, 21 Jan 2008 16:36:50 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/blog/2008/01/21/my-mousepadand-other-musings-from-my-desk/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/01/21/my-mousepadand-other-musings-from-my-desk/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/01/02/mailbag-one-itis-toxic-women-the-genesis-of-%e2%80%9cthe-game%e2%80%9d/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/01/02/mailbag-one-itis-toxic-women-the-genesis-of-%e2%80%9cthe-game%e2%80%9d/#comments Wed, 02 Jan 2008 21:34:48 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/blog/2008/01/02/mailbag-one-itis-toxic-women-the-genesis-of-%e2%80%9cthe-game%e2%80%9d/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/01/02/mailbag-one-itis-toxic-women-the-genesis-of-%e2%80%9cthe-game%e2%80%9d/feed/