All Entries in the "Lifestyle" Category

Planning A Dinner Party? GET THIS BOOK

Those of you who have worked with me, or attended the Natural Attraction Coaching Sessions last winter, know the value I place on DINNER PARTIES. Dinner Parties are a great way to galvanize your social circle, establish yourself as a ‘go 2 guy’ in the group, and to meet new, attractive women…all in your own home.

In other words – it’s a no brainer. If you aren’t throwing dinner parties, then you don’t yet get the idea of leverage, which is the essential ingredient to making your social life EASY and SUCCESSFUL.

Want To Get A Girlfriend? “Dating” May Not Be The Answer

I almost titled this article, “Dating is for Losers”, but…well, that’s a bit harsh. Particularly given I help guys with dating challenges and questions all the time. But, if you want to truly know how to get a girlfriend, focusing too much on dating women might be a fool’s game.

Now, these 4 relationships ALL came about through my social circle but never through a common dating scenario. When I say common dating scenario, I mean:

VIDEO Interview with Christian Hudson (The Social Man)

I was able to meet with Christian Hudson last week, and record a video interview with him. It was VERY packed with content – lots of intel & action on a few BIG topics in our little world. Namely:

Confidence & Developing “Instinctive” Skill (amongst other things)

Learn how on this video (click here)

Alpha Males, Validation, 2 Skills & What Is Actually Possible For You

In my experience, you cannot simply become an alpha male. But, what you CAN do is learn certain dominant, assertive skills which help you be more successful with dating and women.

Let’s face it – passive, insecure men are unattractive. So, learning how to be comfortable with asserting yourself is pretty important.

Me? I am no alpha male. But, I have learned how to go for what I want anyway.

Men’s Lifestyle Lesson #1 – The 5 Skills

Since I am currently coaching some really great guys on the art of creating a naturally attractive lifestyle and social circle which naturally attracts women, these concepts are front and center in my mind.

I recently did a survey of the 50 couples I know that are actively in relationship. That’s right – 50 couples. In fact, if you wanted to, you could try this little experiment too. What you do is ask them how they met, and figure out if it was via social circle/lifestyle, cold approach or online dating.

Well, I did such an experiment and here’s what I found:

Web 2.0 Dating Advice – 1 Good Facebook Tip

Facebook is clearly designed as a way to interact with others online. It’s where you interact with your social circle via the web. That much is clear & simple.

The one thing that a lot of people don’t “get” yet about FB, is its viral effect. The whole “Web 2.0″ movement is a viral design. We can use that to our advantage then when consciously growing our social circle.

(Your social circle either grows consciously, or by accident by the way…)

The 90%+ Game

Here’s the point I’ve been wanting to make for some years now…and before you jump to any sort of conclusion, read this whole post.

Lifestyle & Social Circle is the REAL “game” friend.

Pick-up is fun, useful, and a great way to practice socializing, BUT not a good way AT ALL to meet healthy, attractive, interesting women.

How To Actually “Change” And Why Most Of You Can’t

Strong words, I know. Most of you will not change at all this year, in fact, you will DEvolve grooving more and more negative habits and pulling further and further away from your goals in life. If you’ve made a New Year’s Resolution list, it is likely you’ve already broken many of them, if not [...]

How to Get a Girlfriend – The 4 Steps

Hey man -

My goal in working with men just like you is to help you learn how to get a girlfriend, and a hot girlfriend at that.

No guy should “settle” for what is just available (in fact, I wrote ebook, which is the ultimate how to get a girlfriend guide).

This is not a format for how to get a girlfriend in high school or for how to get a girlfriend online, but rather – in real life.

The “Get Laid For Life” Contest!

Did you watch the whole thing? So, for your convenience, here are the 11 Rules/Tenets of the “Natural” & I need a 12th. 1) No Sarging – I do what I want, and meet women on the way; 2) I am open to trying and exploring new and interesting things always leaning into my “comfort [...]

That First Date “Home Run”

No, I’m not talking about the “full monty” on the first date. Haha – just writing “full monty” makes me remember Mystery – as that is what he always called the close. No, what I want to quickly write here on a rainy NY Monday is all about How To Have An AWESOME First Date… [...]

Getting That “One Special Girl” – Part II

I said Wednesday…and I apologize. This fine machine that I work with here at How To Get A Girlfriend headquarters..aka, this computer has been in “the shop” since Tuesday afternoon. Something about a power supply. So, I’m late. But better late than never, right? Here’s Part II, where I outline some answers to this troubling [...]