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3 Reasons Why Dating Is So Hard For Guys In NYC

Stephen Nash — Tue, 03 Apr 2012 19:34:52 +0000

Do you live in NYC? I do (Brooklyn) and have for nearly 18 years. Well, that is except for the time I spent in LA for Project Hollywood… Anyway, NYC rocks for culture, sport, nightlife, career…but it totally sucks for dating, and as a dating coach in NYC, I see the effects first hand in [...]

Talking “Fearless” with Nick Sparks (The Social Man)

Stephen Nash — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 14:53:04 +0000

I caught up with Nick Sparks of The Social Man yesterday to talk about his newest invention: “Fearless”. We talk about “fear”, what it is, how it manifests in men and how it repulses women. Then, Nick offers some killer tips on reversing the destructive nature of fear, and – how EASY it is to [...]

NYC Dating Coach: Themes I’ve Noticed…

Stephen Nash — Tue, 24 Aug 2010 17:29:26 +0000

As a dating coach here in NYC, you'd likely think that most of the guys I work with are very different, diverse, experiencing very different challenges vis-a-vis women and dating. If that's what you think, you'd be wrong...very very wrong. It's truly amazing how each of the guys who come to me tend to struggle with the exact same things. And, very regularly, the solutions to what they struggle with are usually the same as well. It has caused me to think that there is a true epidemic of fear and insecurity within our male population, which is usually the root cause of his struggles with women.

Are You A Force, Or A Consequence?

Stephen Nash — Tue, 01 Jun 2010 20:01:24 +0000

Big question today. People are either one, or the other. Are you one who initiates, begins, imposes, imagines, creates, acts, DOES? Or, are you one who responds, reacts, cowers, shifts, pulls back, refrains, regrets or puts off?

One Good Dating Tip: Enlist A BFFF

Stephen Nash — Mon, 17 May 2010 16:58:09 +0000

By now you should know that planning parties, events and outings is the BEST way to meet women (didn't know that? Read "How To Get A Girlfriend" ). For the *BEST* results you need to enlist a partner in "social" crime... Your BFFF Your BFFF=Best Female Friend…"Forever" (sorry, had to).

And The Winners Are…

Stephen Nash — Mon, 03 May 2010 20:29:13 +0000

First, let me thank the guys who sincerely participated in this month's Carpe Diem contest. I was REALLY digging the posts, and had a blast following the participants progress across a variety of spectrums. And the winners are...

One Good Dating Tip: Climb Mt. Kilimanjaro

Stephen Nash — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 19:33:13 +0000

An actual question I received from a client not too long ago (paraphrased): "Stephen - I have to make a decision. I've saved around $3500 and wonder if it would be better to either take a seduction training course, or to travel to Kenya with a group and climb Mt. Kilimanjaro. What do you think?" Do you even need to read on to know my answer?

One Good Dating Tip: Far & Away, The BEST Way To Meet A Woman

Stephen Nash — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 20:23:23 +0000

Everything I can teach you about meeting and dating women is summed up in one magical moment.

Should this happen to you, as it has happened to me, you’ll know you have travelled a great distance from frustration to success.

“This Is Stephen, That Guy I Was Telling You About”

One Good Dating Tip: Build A Social Lifestyle

Stephen Nash — Tue, 20 Apr 2010 16:21:58 +0000

Do you do things alone? Do you spend a lot of time at home? Do you have 3 friends who could go with you - TONIGHT - to the Laker game; U2 concert; Yankee game; Saints game?

One Good Dating Tip: Stop Being Boring

Stephen Nash — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 17:23:55 +0000

You're Boring. There, I said it. It's the elephant in the living room, the piece of news your parents are too scared to pass on, and something that the women you like know, but won't tell you... You're boring.