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The Feminism Problem (Part II)

If Part I of this series of articles on Feminism focused on the problem, this article will focus on the solution. (If you haven’t read part I, click the link above and read it. Do not read Part II unless you have read Part I).

In fact, this series could perhaps be titled a bit better, as:

  • The Masculine Problem
  • The Decline of Masculinity
  • How To Be A Man

Planning A Dinner Party? GET THIS BOOK

Those of you who have worked with me, or attended the Natural Attraction Coaching Sessions last winter, know the value I place on DINNER PARTIES. Dinner Parties are a great way to galvanize your social circle, establish yourself as a ‘go 2 guy’ in the group, and to meet new, attractive women…all in your own home.

In other words - it’s a no brainer. If you aren’t throwing dinner parties, then you don’t yet get the idea of leverage, which is the essential ingredient to making your social life EASY and SUCCESSFUL.

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Want To Get A Girlfriend? “Dating” May Not Be The Answer

I almost titled this article, “Dating is for Losers”, but…well, that’s a bit harsh. Particularly given I help guys with dating challenges and questions all the time. But, if you want to truly know how to get a girlfriend, focusing too much on dating women might be a fool’s game.

Now, these 4 relationships ALL came about through my social circle but never through a common dating scenario. When I say common dating scenario, I mean:

VIDEO Interview with Christian Hudson (The Social Man)

I was able to meet with Christian Hudson last week, and record a video interview with him. It was VERY packed with content - lots of intel & action on a few BIG topics in our little world. Namely:

Confidence & Developing “Instinctive” Skill (amongst other things)

Learn how on this video (click here)

Alpha Males, Validation, 2 Skills & What Is Actually Possible For You


In my experience, you cannot simply become an alpha male. But, what you CAN do is learn certain dominant, assertive skills which help you be more successful with dating and women.

Let’s face it - passive, insecure men are unattractive. So, learning how to be comfortable with asserting yourself is pretty important.

Me? I am no alpha male. But, I have learned how to go for what I want anyway.

Men’s Lifestyle Lesson #1 - The 5 Skills

Since I am currently coaching some really great guys on the art of creating a naturally attractive lifestyle and social circle which naturally attracts women, these concepts are front and center in my mind.

I recently did a survey of the 50 couples I know that are actively in relationship. That’s right - 50 couples. In fact, if you wanted to, you could try this little experiment too. What you do is ask them how they met, and figure out if it was via social circle/lifestyle, cold approach or online dating.

Well, I did such an experiment and here’s what I found:

Web 2.0 Dating Advice - 1 Good Facebook Tip

Facebook is clearly designed as a way to interact with others online. It’s where you interact with your social circle via the web. That much is clear & simple.

The one thing that a lot of people don’t “get” yet about FB, is its viral effect. The whole “Web 2.0″ movement is a viral design. We can use that to our advantage then when consciously growing our social circle.

(Your social circle either grows consciously, or by accident by the way…)