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Guy Talk: How Do You Answer This?

I’m currently working up a new program I call the “How To Get A Girlfriend Insider’s Guide“. It’s a 6-month subscription program that allows people deep access into my process for dating success, and a clear path for how to get a girlfriend. One aspect of this new program is a monthly interview I conduct with an expert in the field.

There’s this ONE killer question I’ve been asking everyone that I now want to ask of YOU.

One Good Dating Tip: How To Flirt (Part A)

The Single Most Important Social Skill For Attracting Women On The Planet Without Question Is…

Flirting (of course)

Flirting is the art of poking fun at someone playfully, while simultaneously amplifying sexual tension. Learning how to flirt is part science, and mostly art.

One Good Dating Tip: Climb Mt. Kilimanjaro

An actual question I received from a client not too long ago (paraphrased):

“Stephen –
I have to make a decision. I’ve saved around $3500 and wonder if it would be better to either take a seduction training course, or to travel to Kenya with a group and climb Mt. Kilimanjaro. What do you think?”

Do you even need to read on to know my answer?

One Good Dating Tip: Far & Away, The BEST Way To Meet A Woman

Everything I can teach you about meeting and dating women is summed up in one magical moment.

Should this happen to you, as it has happened to me, you’ll know you have travelled a great distance from frustration to success.

“This Is Stephen, That Guy I Was Telling You About”

One Good Dating Tip: How To Compliment A Woman

First, allow me to eliminate any “bad” thoughts you might have about complimenting women by making this statement:

You SHOULD compliment a woman…if you really, really mean it AND if you do it the right way.

There’s some bad info floating around that says you shouldn’t compliment women. The guys who say that are single, bitter and lonely. Don’t listen to them.

One Good Dating Tip: Build A Social Lifestyle

Do you do things alone?

Do you spend a lot of time at home?

Do you have 3 friends who could go with you – TONIGHT – to the Laker game; U2 concert; Yankee game; Saints game?

One Good Dating Tip: Sarging Is For Losers

A few years ago I produced a product called “The Natural Art of the Pick-Up”, where I break down the SKILLS needed to naturally attract women (sans gimmickry and BS).

Prior to the launch, I did a webinar where I broke down “The Code of the Natural”.

The first point on the list drew a LOT of ire of a number of callers:

“No Sarging”

One Good Dating Tip: “Huh?”

Want to know the WORST response you can ever get from a woman socially?

It’s not: “You? HA! I have no interest in you – don’t talk to me fool!”

Nor is it: “I have a boyfriend”

Nope, the real answer is FAR worse, and MUCH more common…

Diary Of A Pick-Up Artist

The date was February 29th, 2004.

The location: Project Hollywood. I had been living there for just about six weeks.

As I type this diary entry of mine, the sensations return to me and I can reexperience the truth of being a ‘world-class’ pick-up artist.

It’s not a pretty picture.

One Good Dating Tip: Stop Being Boring

You’re Boring.

There, I said it.

It’s the elephant in the living room, the piece of news your parents are too scared to pass on, and something that the women you like know, but won’t tell you…

You’re boring.

One Good Dating Tip: Try The Direct Approach

One of my favorite dating tips for men to pass on is my “direct approach” for how to approach a woman.

Why be direct?

It displays confidence, builds self-esteem, is chivalrous (girls like that) and trustworthy…AND is freeing for you.

One Good Dating Tip: Your Breath Stinks

It might be the biggest faux pas guys make in the dating game – they have bad breath.

I might be Captain Obvious here, but if you are serious about meeting and dating great women…BE SURE TO HAVE GOOD BREATH.

Often though, the biggest hurdle is that guys DON’T KNOW that they have bad breath. The trick of breathing into your hands in order to sniff it doesn’t work. So, how can we tell?