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One Good Dating Tip: Stop Being Boring

You’re Boring.

There, I said it.

It’s the elephant in the living room, the piece of news your parents are too scared to pass on, and something that the women you like know, but won’t tell you…

You’re boring.

One Good Dating Tip: Try The Direct Approach

One of my favorite dating tips for men to pass on is my “direct approach” for how to approach a woman.

Why be direct?

It displays confidence, builds self-esteem, is chivalrous (girls like that) and trustworthy…AND is freeing for you.

One Good Dating Tip: Your Breath Stinks

It might be the biggest faux pas guys make in the dating game – they have bad breath.

I might be Captain Obvious here, but if you are serious about meeting and dating great women…BE SURE TO HAVE GOOD BREATH.

Often though, the biggest hurdle is that guys DON’T KNOW that they have bad breath. The trick of breathing into your hands in order to sniff it doesn’t work. So, how can we tell?

One Good Dating Tip: “Think Different”

Do you remember the “Think Different” Apple campaign from the 1980s?

Well, if you follow this blog with any regularity, you’ve probably figured out by now that my main emphasis is to help you SEE that the key to attracting great women is to become a great man…and if you aren’t attracting the kinds of women you want…then you’ve got some work to do.

One Good Dating Tip: Go For 8′s

In order to understand this article, you’ll have to allow me to use the classic – and super tacky – numerical rating system for women (which I loathe).

You know, the one where you call one girl a “5″ and another a “9″ and profess that you only date “10s” and that your last girlfriend was a “9.322″.

I think you should go for 8′s.
Not 9′s.
And definitely not 10′s.

One Good Dating Tip: Stop Worrying About What To Say

If you find yourself often wondering, obsessing or predominantly focused on what to say to women, or how to talk to women, you, my friend, are barking up the wrong tree.

Sure, it’s important, but nowhere NEAR as important as the YOU that is saying it. Women are attracted by energy NOT words. The energy that is attractive is a…

One Good Dating Tip: If It Seems Weird, It IS Weird

Does this man seem "weird" to you?Full disclosure – my first exposure to the dating/pick-up/seduction community was via a program that used NLP and hypnosis to seduce women.

I just threw up a little in my mouth writing that.

That’s the truth though, and it helped me only VERY little…and nowhere near as much as other, more mainstream, more real world programs eventually did.

One Good Dating Tip: Value Begats Women (Here’s How)

I like metaphors.

Imagine you want to plant a beautiful tree. You would first need to find a perfect spot for this tree, and “till the soil” before planting. Over the period of a few weeks, this would prepare the ground for the seed to grow into a healthy sapling and further into a strong, stable tree.

Giving value is HOW to till the soil of relationships. Giving value is also HOW to become attractive to women.

One Good Dating Tip: Stop Worrying About “Attraction”

Men are confused.

Oh, and the ones who have been exposed to the varieties of dating, seduction & pick-up methodologies out there, are even MORE confused than those who haven’t.

I want you to simplify and experience real-world success FAST. Here’s how…

One Good Dating Tip: Playful Kino

Playful kino, done correctly, says a lot about a guy.

What is kino? It’s when we touch a woman. If you touch her arm, her hand, her shoulder, her face…this is all “kino”. Now, there are good and not-do-good types of kino. We want to focus on the good type – playful kino.

One Good Dating Tip: How To Get A Girls Number

Ever wonder how to get a girls number? What is the single BEST way to ask for her number?

Here is my experience with this challenge, and what I discovered as the single BEST way to ask for her phone number.

One Good Dating Tip: A First Date Tip

The first date is crucial for obvious reasons. If it bombs, and there is no chemistry, then there will be no 2nd date. This should not be surprising, particularly for guys who consistently read this blog.

You cannot FORCE chemistry, nor can you predict everything that will happen on the date and be therefore prepared for it. But, if you really dig the girl, the first date will feel like diving off of a high dive. Here’s a GREAT tip that can help…