All Entries in the "One Good Dating Tip" Category

One Good Dating Tip: Take The Spotlight!

In socializing, and in particular with women, you have to be willing to take up space.

Being confident enough to take the spotlight for a minute or two is strong and healthy. You must be willing to do this.

One Good Dating Tip: When To Say “Can I Buy You A Drink?”

If a woman smiles at you from across the room, how do you approach her? She’s practically SCREAMING for you to come and talk to her. But, what is NOW the best way to begin the conversation?

Before you even begin to move towards her, remember to keep it simple and never do more than you really need to do.

Use the E/S opener.

One Good Dating Tip: Her “Approach Me” Signals

Most women will not approach you. You “get” that, right?

BUT, they WILL give you signals, or “indicators” of interest. In this day and age it is somewhat taboo for a woman to overtly indicate her interest to a man. However, there are ‘ways’ she can signal you to approach her. Lets talk about those now…

One Good Dating Tip: Enlist A BFFF

By now you should know that planning parties, events and outings is the BEST way to meet women (didn’t know that? Read “How To Get A Girlfriend” ). For the *BEST* results you need to enlist a partner in “social” crime…

Your BFFF

Your BFFF=Best Female Friend…”Forever” (sorry, had to).

One Good Dating Tip: The 3 Reasons To Approach A Woman

There are 3 good reasons to approach a woman. Pay particular attention to the ORDER I put these in, OK?

So, imagine you are on the subway, in a park, in the bookstore, wherever. You are doing something OTHER than trolling for girls. Here is why you should approach:

One Good Dating Tip: How To Flirt (Part B)

Listening…

Yeah, it’s an unsexy, unflashy, seemingly innocently banal…SKILL.

And guess what? It’s REALLY important. Seems too simple, right? Like - “why is Stephen Nash, dating coach extraordinaire (*cough*), writing a post about LISTENING of all things”??

Without it, you’re SUNK.

One Good Dating Tip: Climb Mt. Kilimanjaro

An actual question I received from a client not too long ago (paraphrased):

“Stephen -
I have to make a decision. I’ve saved around $3500 and wonder if it would be better to either take a seduction training course, or to travel to Kenya with a group and climb Mt. Kilimanjaro. What do you think?”

Do you even need to read on to know my answer?

One Good Dating Tip: Far & Away, The BEST Way To Meet A Woman

Everything I can teach you about meeting and dating women is summed up in one magical moment.

Should this happen to you, as it has happened to me, you’ll know you have travelled a great distance from frustration to success.

“This Is Stephen, That Guy I Was Telling You About”

One Good Dating Tip: How To Compliment A Woman

First, allow me to eliminate any “bad” thoughts you might have about complimenting women by making this statement:

You SHOULD compliment a woman…if you really, really mean it AND if you do it the right way.

There’s some bad info floating around that says you shouldn’t compliment women. The guys who say that are single, bitter and lonely. Don’t listen to them.

One Good Dating Tip: Build A Social Lifestyle

Do you do things alone?

Do you spend a lot of time at home?

Do you have 3 friends who could go with you - TONIGHT - to the Laker game; U2 concert; Yankee game; Saints game?

One Good Dating Tip: Sarging Is For Losers

A few years ago I produced a product called “The Natural Art of the Pick-Up”, where I break down the SKILLS needed to naturally attract women (sans gimmickry and BS).

Prior to the launch, I did a webinar where I broke down “The Code of the Natural”.

The first point on the list drew a LOT of ire of a number of callers:

“No Sarging”

One Good Dating Tip: “Huh?”

Want to know the WORST response you can ever get from a woman socially?

It’s not: “You? HA! I have no interest in you - don’t talk to me fool!”

Nor is it: “I have a boyfriend”

Nope, the real answer is FAR worse, and MUCH more common…