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	<pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2010 17:44:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>The Ultimate First Impression</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/07/06/the-ultimate-first-impression/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 16:37:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/07/06/the-ultimate-first-impression"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2788" title="video" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2010/08/video-250x250.jpg" alt="" width="125" height="125" /></a>I've posted a new video over on my "How To Get A Girlfriend" eBook blog which I call "The Ultimate First Impression".  In it, I teach you these 3 concepts (plus tons more, these are just the main ones):

Baiting, High Social Value &#038; The Ultimate First Impression

Go here to watch it now:

<a href="http://how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/indexufi.html">The Ultimate First Impression Video</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Guy Talk: What Is Your Dating Blind Spot?</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/06/11/guy-talk-what-is-your-dating-blind-spot/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 15:33:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2765</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/06/11/guy-talk-what-is-your-dating-blind-spot/"><img class="alignright" src="http://healthin30.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/blind-spot-rear-view-mirror1.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="166" /></a>Everyone has a blind spot.  And in the area of dating and women, many men have very prominent blind spots.  

By definition, we might be unable to diagnose ourselves.  But, if we can generate an interesting discussion on blind spots we have noticed in OTHERS, we might be helped to take a different look at ourselves.]]></description>
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		<title>One Good Dating Tip: Take The Spotlight!</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/27/one-good-dating-tip-take-the-spotlight/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2010 17:06:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2660</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/27/one-good-dating-tip-take-the-spotlight/"><img class="alignright" src="http://billylai.files.wordpress.com/2009/05/point_spotlight_dynamic.jpg" alt="" width="160" height="114" /></a>In socializing, and in particular with women, you have to be willing to take up space. 

Being confident enough to take the spotlight for a minute or two is strong and healthy.  <strong>You must be willing to do this.</strong>  ]]></description>
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		<title>One Good Dating Tip: When To Say &#8220;Can I Buy You A Drink?&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/25/one-good-dating-tip-when-to-say-can-i-buy-you-a-drink/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 17:58:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Approaching]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2650</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/25/one-good-dating-tip-when-to-say-can-i-buy-you-a-drink/"><img class="alignright" src="http://blstb.msn.com/i/7C/E92F851A9BB6BB41DB22D4CF8DBA3.jpg" alt="" width="120" height="160" /></a>If a woman smiles at you from across the room, how do you approach her?  She's practically SCREAMING for you to come and talk to her.  But, what is NOW the best way to begin the conversation?

Before you even begin to move towards her, remember to keep it simple and never do more than you really need to do.

Use the E/S opener.]]></description>
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		<title>Project Hollywood (VIDEO): From Mel&#8217;s To Mayhem</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/21/project-hollywood-from-mels-to-mayhem-video/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2010 15:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Cameron Teone]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/21/project-hollywood-from-mels-to-mayhem-video/"><img class="alignright" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3139/2356652813_6fc7165289.jpg"/ width="200" height="150"></a>

I was recently in LA, staying with my friend Cameron Teone, and we HAD to return to the Sunset Strip and revisit <strong>Project Hollywood</strong>.

While we were dining at Mel's (where else?) we got the idea to quickly film the walk from the diner, up the hill, to the house.   Check out the video we shot...]]></description>
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		<title>One Good Dating Tip: Her &#8220;Approach Me&#8221; Signals</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/19/one-good-dating-tip-her-approach-me-signals/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2010 20:18:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Approaching]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/19/one-good-dating-tip-her-approach-me-signals/"><img class="alignright" src="http://datingplaybook.com/blog/images/approach-woman21209.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="160" /></a>Most women will not approach you. You "get" that, right?

BUT, they WILL give you signals, or "indicators" of interest. In this day and age it is somewhat taboo for a woman to overtly indicate her interest to a man. However, there are ‘ways’ she can signal you to approach her.  Lets talk about those now...]]></description>
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		<title>One Good Dating Tip: Enlist A BFFF</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/17/one-good-dating-tip-enlist-a-bfff/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 16:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Lifestyle]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/17/one-good-dating-tip-enlist-a-bfff/"> <img class="alignright" src="http://www.c3gov.com/pages/recreation/images/Huddle400x360.jpg" alt="" width="160" height="170" /></a>By now you should know that planning parties, events and outings is the BEST way to meet women (didn't know that?  Read <a href="http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/ebook.html">"How To Get A Girlfriend"</a> ).  For the *BEST* results you need to enlist a partner in "social" crime...

<strong>Your BFFF
</strong>
Your BFFF=Best Female Friend…"Forever" (sorry, had to).]]></description>
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		<title>My Interview on the Barry Kirkey Radio Show</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/14/my-interview-on-the-barry-kirkey-radio-show/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 16:33:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/14/my-interview-on-the-barry-kirkey-radio-show/"><img class="alignright" src="http://www.theoffline.com/images/assets/thumbnails/draculay.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="115" /></a>So, I caught up yesterday with my old friend Barry Kirkey on his online radio show.  The chat lasted for about 45 minutes. 

He gets me to divulge the backstory of my breakup last year.  I talk about the "scene" in the home we shared when I returned from a business trip.  It wasn't pretty.  We talk a bit about "Suicide Girls" (and <strong>why you should not date a Suicide Girl</strong>...) and other stuff. Listen to it here...]]></description>
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		<title>One Good Dating Tip: The 3 Reasons To Approach A Woman</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/13/one-good-dating-tip-the-3-reasons-to-approach-a-woman/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 17:58:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/13/one-good-dating-tip-the-3-reasons-to-approach-a-woman/"><img class="alignright" src="http://images.askmen.com/scent/attraction/1248378403_top-10-essential-tips-for-approaching-women_2.jpg" alt="" width="135" height="135" /></a>There are 3 good reasons to <strong>approach a woman</strong>.  Pay particular attention to the ORDER I put these in, OK?

So, imagine you are on the subway, in a park, in the bookstore, wherever.  You are doing something OTHER than trolling for girls.  Here is why you should approach:]]></description>
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		<title>One Good Dating Tip: How To Flirt (Part B)</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/12/one-good-dating-tip-how-to-flirt-part-b/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 16:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/12/one-good-dating-tip-how-to-flirt-part-b/"><img class="alignright" src="http://swervechurch.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/man-listening-hand-to-ear1.jpg" alt="" width="125" height="155" /></a>
<strong>Listening...</strong>

Yeah, it's an unsexy, unflashy, seemingly innocently banal...SKILL.

And guess what?  It's REALLY important.  Seems too simple, right?  Like - "why is Stephen Nash, dating coach extraordinaire (*cough*), writing a post about LISTENING of all things"?? 

Without it, you're SUNK.]]></description>
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