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One Good Dating Tip: Your Breath Stinks

It might be the biggest faux pas guys make in the dating game - they have bad breath.

I might be Captain Obvious here, but if you are serious about meeting and dating great women…BE SURE TO HAVE GOOD BREATH.

Often though, the biggest hurdle is that guys DON’T KNOW that they have bad breath. The trick of breathing into your hands in order to sniff it doesn’t work. So, how can we tell?

First Impressions: How To Avoid Setting-Off Her “Creep Meter”

Hey there -
Wanted to get you guys thinking about meeting women in a new way today. Social skills, and active social approaches are all good. But, the passive work of building a personal style…and more importantly…a confident, social VIBE is much more important.
A balanced, holistic approach to meeting and dating was the precise [...]

Funny Article on Decoding Halloween Costumes

Hey guys,
Ever been to Great Adventure in NJ? Unreal roller coasters. My girlfriend and I, and two other friends, went there on Sunday. We rode 12 roller coasters! Amazing fun.
Stumbled across this funny article and thought to post it. Last week I wrote a bit about being smart with your [...]

How To Meet Women on Halloween

I have received a number of emails this week from guys wanting to know cool ideas for Halloween costumes.
What they are REALLY asking are what are some ways to get attention with their costume, and even have people (read: WOMEN) approach you.
Well, you could always dress as Hugh Hefner – fully [...]

Keys To Mastering Your Look

What is your Look?
How do you think people see you, when they first meet you?
What is your first impression?
Do You Even KNOW?
If not…you’ll want to seriously consider what I am about to cover with you. Don’t you think you deserve to make a strong first impression? I think you do. I Cover all these in [...]

Once and For All – What Attraction REALLY Is…

So many words in our lexicon are tossed around with such a variety of meaning, that it’s a true wonder that we understand each other in this culture. This is PARTICULARLY true in the world of dating. One basic concept that you guys HAVE to grasp is the nature of ATTRACTION.
Attraction, in brief, is simply [...]

How Storytelling Can SAVE Your Dating Life

Have you ever found yourself in a conversation with NOTHING to say?
Are you the kind of guy who ‘defaults’ into asking questions when the discussion dries up?
If so, I have the perfect solution for you…
Tell A STORY!
Storytelling is an age-old artform, but for our purposes I want to keep things simple…this is just [...]

An ESSENTIAL Skill – How To Escalate

So, how do you know when to take things to the next level?
How to know when to “make the move”? This is a problem every guy sweats. In fact, I know a handful of guys who lose sleep over this prior to going out with a girl. Wouldn’t you like a clear and easy plan [...]

Fast and Easy Tips to Avoid Being “Just Friends”

Don’t worry, it happens to each and every one of us. We meet a woman, she is gorgeous, intelligent, and seems into us. And then, just as we are about to move to kiss her, she throws up her hands and delivers the CLASSIC line:
Let’s Just Be Friends
Ugh…our hearts drop, we feel embarrassed, and our [...]

Boys to Men: Cure Your Neediness

Want to know the REAL reason women are turned-off by men? The answer might surprise you.
You’re probably thinking it has to do with your haircut, the pleats in your pants, or your bank account. In fact, it usually has NOTHING to do with these things.
I remember being blown off by a girl in college. I [...]

8 Questions to Master Your Look

What is your Look?
How do you think people see you, when they first meet you?
What is your first impression?
Do You Even KNOW?
If not…you’ll want to seriously consider what I am about to cover with you. Don’t you think you deserve to make a strong first impression? I think you do. Read on.
I [...]

A Halloween Trick - Put Your Costume To Work!

I have received a number of emails this week from guys wanting to know cool ideas for Halloween costumes.
What they are REALLY asking are what are some ways to get attention with their costume, and even have people (read: WOMEN) approach you.
Well, you could always dress as Hugh Hefner - fully robed, with slippers. [...]