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How To Get A Girlfriend – A Primer

I worked with two clients recently who both asked me to summarize how it is that I help guys with this age-old question: How To Get A Girlfriend. I realized this was such a clear request that I have handled in my ebook, but I thought it might be useful to briefly cover this in [...]

What Do You Think of this Yahoo! Article?

Hi there – I was visiting my girlfriend’s family over the holiday, and was logging-in to my yahoo account and found an article featured on the front page about hot women dating ugly guys. In my ebook How To Get A Girlfriend I discuss the true nature of attraction. David D, Mystery, Style & I [...]

Tricky & Subtle – Mastering Long-Term Attraction…

Hey – Since the release of the Third Edition of How To Get A Girlfriend, I’ve been asked to do a number of interviews. This question comes to me at a time when my life is in full-throttle, and my relationship is as strong as ever. I have to say, I’ve never been happier or [...]

From The Archive…I “Heart” NYC

Hey guys, A rainy Tuesday in NYC calls for…a fun/nutso story from my archive… During the Project Hollywood experiment, I was known as PlayboyLA, or just – Playboy (the name Neil used for me in “The Game”). I used to work for a pick-up company, and the following is a lay-report from those times (posted [...]

Important Mailbag: Dating In The Workplace

Ever had an urge to date someone you worked with? If you have, then you are in the majority of those employed in this world. Seriously. My parents met on a job. Years ago, my mom was hired at a Symphony in NC and they had organized a “welcome” drink for her after work. Well, [...]

Quote of the Week: David Deida…

Who else, right? David Deida is truly the leader of the modern men’s movement (in my opinion), and always rings the bell of truth when it comes to being a man in relationship to women. When I say “relationship”, I don’t mean that you have to be in “a” relationship to appreciate his work. What [...]

Mailbag: One-itis, Toxic Women & The Genesis of “The Game”

There is a phenomenon in the dating world, and it is called “one-itis”. This is where you, the guy, become so obsessed with a woman that you literally cannot see other options which exist. The man affilicted with “one-itis” is consumed with the girl’s behavior, her every word, the meaning of all of her actions. [...]

How Storytelling Can SAVE Your Dating Life

Have you ever found yourself in a conversation with NOTHING to say? Are you the kind of guy who ‘defaults’ into asking questions when the discussion dries up? If so, I have the perfect solution for you… Tell A STORY! Storytelling is an age-old artform, but for our purposes I want to keep things simple…this [...]

Fast and Easy Tips to Avoid Being “Just Friends”

Don’t worry, it happens to each and every one of us. We meet a woman, she is gorgeous, intelligent, and seems into us. And then, just as we are about to move to kiss her, she throws up her hands and delivers the CLASSIC line:A Let’s Just Be Friends Ugh…our hearts drop, we feel embarrassed, [...]

Eyes Can’t Resist Beautiful People

Hey guys – I stumbled across an intriguing article today in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. As a member of the Association of Image Consultants International, I get all kinds of interesting newsletters and such. So, I found this on Yahoo and am reposting it here – it’s really interesting. This could help [...]

10 Steps to a Great Smooch – A Man’s Guide

My goal with this article is to tell you EXACTLY what to do before, during, and after…the FIRST KISS. If you’re kissing her the second time, congratulations – she liked it enough the first time to have a second. In How To Get A Girlfriend, I cover this topic A LOT (along with everything else [...]

Going For The Kiss

Mailbag time gentlemen. This is where we take a particularly interesting question from someone that we feel challenges A LOT of guys out there. Today’s covers a particularly sensitive topic – how to go for the kiss. Most guys won’t admit it, but they fumble this moment like a rookie running back. Want to be [...]