http://www.datingsecretsformen.com NYC Dating Coach Stephen Nash's Blog Tue, 24 Aug 2010 17:44:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 en http://www.datingsecretsformen.com http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/images/favicon.jpg http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/09/24/masculinity-part-i-stop-objectifying-women/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/09/24/masculinity-part-i-stop-objectifying-women/#comments Thu, 24 Sep 2009 18:00:43 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=1997 Masculinism. Ever hear of it? There, in fact, IS a 'movement' of sorts for men...but it is largely intellectual and ineffectual. It grew as a response to the feminism movement, but has gone mostly nowhere in impacting men's lives. Mostly, there is the appropriate advocacy of men's rights via the judicial system. But, what we're discussing here in this series is something much different. Lets talk about stopping "objectifying" women and how it is the first phase of real development for men.]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/09/24/masculinity-part-i-stop-objectifying-women/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/09/03/the-feminism-problem-part-ii/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/09/03/the-feminism-problem-part-ii/#comments Thu, 03 Sep 2009 15:39:05 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=1956 If Part I of this series of articles on Feminism focused on the problem, this article will focus on the solution. (If you haven't read part I, click the link above and read it. Do not read Part II unless you have read Part I). In fact, this series could perhaps be titled a bit better, as:

• The Masculine Problem
• The Decline of Masculinity
• How To Be A Man

]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/09/03/the-feminism-problem-part-ii/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/08/24/the-feminism-problem-part-i/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/08/24/the-feminism-problem-part-i/#comments Mon, 24 Aug 2009 23:19:40 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=1891 I cannot help but notice a startling consequence that seems to occur in intimate relationships between men and women. Since the rise of feminism, the divorce rate has dramatically increased and men are quietly developing an unhealthy anger towards women, a resentment at a new disenfranchisement - the unfairness and inequality in the cultural, social and dating circles which is profoundly stacked against men. We are now seeing a growing circus of men acting this anger out in horribly destructive ways with potentially devastating consequences. My thesis is: Feminism, and the subsequent assertiveness of women, has led to a profound polarity shift between men and women, and has led to an unhealthy inequality in dating and relationships. ]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/08/24/the-feminism-problem-part-i/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/08/18/evolution-of-a-hottie-2/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/08/18/evolution-of-a-hottie-2/#comments Tue, 18 Aug 2009 14:44:39 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=1878 This is an article from my archive, written probably 3-4 years ago. It is a study in the psychology of the "hottie", or the girl that men tend to meet in bars & clubs. Most guys who work with me have faded out of the PUA scene, and are looking for a more solid and strong direction for their dating and social lives. Often, they are disenchanted with the sort of girl they meet at clubs and bars. The anger they feel tends to snap out in the form of referring to the girls they meet as...]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/08/18/evolution-of-a-hottie-2/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/26/why-you-should-be-saying-lets-just-be-friends/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/26/why-you-should-be-saying-lets-just-be-friends/#comments Tue, 26 May 2009 14:31:09 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=1709 It seems completely, totally, absolutely clear to me now...the single thing most important in finding a lasting, healthy relationship is friendship. How to get a girlfriend starts with a friendship. I am single now, and at times I find myself trying on the old PUA thinking. It usually begins when I see an attractive woman, and I feel that chemical release of physical/sexual interest. Of course, this is relatively meaningless in the big picture - as I've learned.]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/05/26/why-you-should-be-saying-lets-just-be-friends/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/02/04/female-psychology-101-female-attraction/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/02/04/female-psychology-101-female-attraction/#comments Wed, 04 Feb 2009 14:49:19 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=1430 Female attraction is different than male attraction. The elements that trigger attraction in a woman are different than they are for a man. The ultimate feeling of attraction is likely the same, but what creates it are different in men and women. So, when we are talking about female psychology, we need to understand how it is very different than male psychology - and in particular, how this relates to meeting women and dating. A study of psychology will only help us if it turns into the "practical"...as that's how us guys work.]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/02/04/female-psychology-101-female-attraction/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/09/09/a-conversation-with-scot-mccay/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/09/09/a-conversation-with-scot-mccay/#comments Tue, 09 Sep 2008 22:04:52 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/blog/2008/09/09/a-conversation-with-scot-mccay/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/09/09/a-conversation-with-scot-mccay/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/04/14/getting-that-one-special-girl-part-ii/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/04/14/getting-that-one-special-girl-part-ii/#comments Mon, 14 Apr 2008 17:00:58 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/blog/2008/04/14/getting-that-one-special-girl-part-ii/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/04/14/getting-that-one-special-girl-part-ii/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/04/07/getting-that-one-special-girl/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/04/07/getting-that-one-special-girl/#comments Mon, 07 Apr 2008 16:44:21 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/blog/2008/04/07/getting-that-one-special-girl/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/04/07/getting-that-one-special-girl/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/03/21/from-bachelor-to-boyfriendor-something-to-think-about-during-march-madness/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/03/21/from-bachelor-to-boyfriendor-something-to-think-about-during-march-madness/#comments Fri, 21 Mar 2008 19:54:30 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/blog/2008/03/21/from-bachelor-to-boyfriendor-something-to-think-about-during-march-madness/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2008/03/21/from-bachelor-to-boyfriendor-something-to-think-about-during-march-madness/feed/