All Entries in the "Female Psychology" Category

The Feminism Problem (Part III): Stop Objectifying Women

Masculinism. Ever hear of it? There, in fact, IS a ‘movement’ of sorts for men…but it is largely intellectual and ineffectual. It grew as a response to the feminism movement, but has gone mostly nowhere in impacting men’s lives. Mostly, there is the appropriate advocacy of men’s rights via the judicial system. But, what we’re discussing here in this series is something much different.

Lets talk about stopping “objectifying” women and how it is the first phase of real development for men.

The Feminism Problem (Part II)

If Part I of this series of articles on Feminism focused on the problem, this article will focus on the solution. (If you haven’t read part I, click the link above and read it. Do not read Part II unless you have read Part I).

In fact, this series could perhaps be titled a bit better, as:

• The Masculine Problem
• The Decline of Masculinity
• How To Be A Man

The Feminism Problem (Part I)

I cannot help but notice a startling consequence that seems to occur in intimate relationships between men and women. Since the rise of feminism, the divorce rate has dramatically increased and men are quietly developing an unhealthy anger towards women, a resentment at a new disenfranchisement - the unfairness and inequality in the cultural, social and dating circles which is profoundly stacked against men. We are now seeing a growing circus of men acting this anger out in horribly destructive ways with potentially devastating consequences.

My thesis is: Feminism, and the subsequent assertiveness of women, has led to a profound polarity shift between men and women, and has led to an unhealthy inequality in dating and relationships.

Evolution Of A Hottie

This is an article from my archive, written probably 3-4 years ago. It is a study in the psychology of the “hottie”, or the girl that men tend to meet in bars & clubs.

Most guys who work with me have faded out of the PUA scene, and are looking for a more solid and strong direction for their dating and social lives. Often, they are disenchanted with the sort of girl they meet at clubs and bars. The anger they feel tends to snap out in the form of referring to the girls they meet as…

Why YOU Should Be Saying “Lets Just Be Friends”

It seems completely, totally, absolutely clear to me now…the single thing most important in finding a lasting, healthy relationship is friendship.

How to get a girlfriend starts with a friendship. I am single now, and at times I find myself trying on the old PUA thinking. It usually begins when I see an attractive woman, and I feel that chemical release of physical/sexual interest. Of course, this is relatively meaningless in the big picture - as I’ve learned.

Female Psychology 101 - Female Attraction

Female attraction is different than male attraction. The elements that trigger attraction in a woman are different than they are for a man. The ultimate feeling of attraction is likely the same, but what creates it are different in men and women.

So, when we are talking about female psychology, we need to understand how it is very different than male psychology - and in particular, how this relates to meeting women and dating.

A study of psychology will only help us if it turns into the “practical”…as that’s how us guys work.

A Conversation With Scot McKay

Listen in as Scot and I talk about attracting women naturally, relationship management, the learning curve, drawbacks to sarging, how to keep a woman interested (for longer than 10 minutes), signs of supplication, and the big 4 - his, and mine…
Learn more about Scot’s killer work right here:
The Leading Man
Enjoy man!
Sn.

Getting That “One Special Girl” - Part II

I said Wednesday…and I apologize.
This fine machine that I work with here at How To Get A Girlfriend headquarters..aka, this computer has been in “the shop” since Tuesday afternoon.
Something about a power supply.
So, I’m late.
But better late than never, right?
Here’s Part II, where I outline some answers to this troubling phenomenon of “one-itis” or becoming [...]

Getting That “One Special Girl” - Part I

Hey -
One thing I did not cover in my ebook, “How To Get A Girlfriend” was what to do in that special circumstance where you get hung up on her to the point where you’re obsessed, a bit unfocused, and perhaps even slightly (or more) crazy.
I want to tell you a brief story now - [...]

Bachelor To Boyfriend…Something To Think About During “March Madness”

Since the release of the Third Edition of How To Get A Girlfriend, I’ve been asked to do a number of interviews.
This question comes to me at a time when my life is in full-throttle, and my relationship is as strong as ever. I have to say, I’ve never been happier or more in love [...]

First Impressions: How To Avoid Setting-Off Her “Creep Meter”

Hey there -
Wanted to get you guys thinking about meeting women in a new way today. Social skills, and active social approaches are all good. But, the passive work of building a personal style…and more importantly…a confident, social VIBE is much more important.
A balanced, holistic approach to meeting and dating was the precise [...]

Mailbag: One-itis, Toxic Women & The Genesis of “The Game”

Happy New Year!
This post could be called: the opposite of How To Get A Girlfriend. Today I want to discuss a phenomenon in the dating world called “one-itis”.
Ever hear of it?
Or, worse yet - ever experience it?? Ugh, I hope not man.
This is where you, the guy, become so obsessed with a woman [...]