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Alpha Males, Validation, 2 Skills & What Is Actually Possible For You

In my experience, you cannot simply become an alpha male. But, what you CAN do is learn certain dominant, assertive skills which help you be more successful with dating and women.

Let’s face it – passive, insecure men are unattractive. So, learning how to be comfortable with asserting yourself is pretty important.

Me? I am no alpha male. But, I have learned how to go for what I want anyway.

Galapagos Art Space…a Great Place To Socialize

One of the themes of this website is to develop a healthy, involved and engaged social life. One thing I really enjoy is to explore non-bar/club venues in the city, and get a feel for how “social” the environment is. Does it facilitate interaction, or make that more difficult – that’s the big question.

Galapagos Art Space in DUMBO (Brooklyn) is a GREAT place to mingle and enjoy a classy, financially responsible night out. They feature a lot of music, theater and film as their attraction – but, the design, layout and flow of the space is very very cool.

L.A. Diary #1 – Back To Project Hollywood

I couldn’t resist, I had to return.

I had some dinner Tuesday night with some old friends, and then slipped off to return to Cameron Teone’s (where I am staying) for the night. I was exhausted from jet-lag, and looking forward to a long rest. But, I could see the Sunset Strip in the L.A. distance. In a haze at the foot of The Hills, I could barely make out the old buildings I knew so well 5 years ago.

I was heading back to Project Hollywood…

Men’s Lifestyle Lesson #1 – The 5 Skills

Since I am currently coaching some really great guys on the art of creating a naturally attractive lifestyle and social circle which naturally attracts women, these concepts are front and center in my mind.

I recently did a survey of the 50 couples I know that are actively in relationship. That’s right – 50 couples. In fact, if you wanted to, you could try this little experiment too. What you do is ask them how they met, and figure out if it was via social circle/lifestyle, cold approach or online dating.

Well, I did such an experiment and here’s what I found:

Web 2.0 Dating Advice – 1 Good Facebook Tip

Facebook is clearly designed as a way to interact with others online. It’s where you interact with your social circle via the web. That much is clear & simple.

The one thing that a lot of people don’t “get” yet about FB, is its viral effect. The whole “Web 2.0″ movement is a viral design. We can use that to our advantage then when consciously growing our social circle.

(Your social circle either grows consciously, or by accident by the way…)

The 90%+ Game

Here’s the point I’ve been wanting to make for some years now…and before you jump to any sort of conclusion, read this whole post.

Lifestyle & Social Circle is the REAL “game” friend.

Pick-up is fun, useful, and a great way to practice socializing, BUT not a good way AT ALL to meet healthy, attractive, interesting women.

Female Psychology 101 – Female Attraction

Female attraction is different than male attraction. The elements that trigger attraction in a woman are different than they are for a man. The ultimate feeling of attraction is likely the same, but what creates it are different in men and women.

So, when we are talking about female psychology, we need to understand how it is very different than male psychology – and in particular, how this relates to meeting women and dating.

A study of psychology will only help us if it turns into the “practical”…as that’s how us guys work.

My Girlfriend Is A Suicide Girl

It’s cool, and kinda weird too. My girlfriend is now naked on the internet.

Being a suicide girl is way cool. I’ve met a bunch of them now, I’ve become very familiar with their website, and I’ve witnessed their operation from the inside.

They’ve got their shit together. The girls? Hot, modern-day pin-ups with tattoos (some more than others) as well as piercings in places that make me wince. But, they all seem to have that seductive hipness that always gets my attention.

Inner Game, Confidence, Self-Esteem, Self Image &….Dating

Bet that guy never worried about confidence (see right).

Bet he never contemplated getting help with his inner game…;-)

Nowadays though, it is uncommon to find any guy who has some challenge or issue with his inner game, his internal self-image.

It’s probably linked in some way to our culture and society. And marketers prey upon it by offering you blue pills or red pills, to step out of the matrix and somehow find yourself suddenly changed and empowered.

Death Of The “Pick-Up Artist”

I know, I am being dramatic…putting “death” in my subject line and all.

But, in truth, my goal is to say good-bye to “pick-up” as we know it – and introduce something non-gimmicky, and more natural…more REAL & EFFECTIVE.

The Natural Art of the Pick-Up

Just watching Mystery coach those poor, unfortunate guys on TV for 3 minutes makes me want to throw up in my mouth (sorry, TMI, I know…).

But, it’s TRUE man.

How to Get a Girlfriend – The 4 Steps

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My goal in working with men just like you is to help you learn how to get a girlfriend, and a hot girlfriend at that.

No guy should “settle” for what is just available (in fact, I wrote ebook, which is the ultimate how to get a girlfriend guide).

This is not a format for how to get a girlfriend in high school or for how to get a girlfriend online, but rather – in real life.

Dr. Stephen Nash, Dating Coach: Notes From My 1-on-1 Work With Guys

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I’ve recently had a rush of 1-on-1 coaching work here and it occurred to me to write a little bit about my observations of the common challenges I see guys facing (long sentences anyone?).

I guess it’s the nature of how I advertise my social coaching as not being an in-field “pick-up artist” training course that yields me less students than say some other company, BUT I also usually get very cool, more normal guys too.