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NYC Dating Coach: Themes I’ve Noticed…

As a dating coach here in NYC, you’d likely think that most of the guys I work with are very different, diverse, experiencing very different challenges vis-a-vis women and dating. If that’s what you think, you’d be wrong…very very wrong.

It’s truly amazing how each of the guys who come to me tend to struggle with the exact same things. And, very regularly, the solutions to what they struggle with are usually the same as well. It has caused me to think that there is a true epidemic of fear and insecurity within our male population, which is usually the root cause of his struggles with women.

The Ultimate First Impression

I’ve posted a new video over on my “How To Get A Girlfriend” eBook blog which I call “The Ultimate First Impression”. In it, I teach you these 3 concepts (plus tons more, these are just the main ones):

Baiting, High Social Value & The Ultimate First Impression

Go here to watch it now:

The Ultimate First Impression Video

Guy Talk: What Is Your Dating Blind Spot?

Everyone has a blind spot. And in the area of dating and women, many men have very prominent blind spots.

By definition, we might be unable to diagnose ourselves. But, if we can generate an interesting discussion on blind spots we have noticed in OTHERS, we might be helped to take a different look at ourselves.

Are You A Force, Or A Consequence?

Big question today.

People are either one, or the other. Are you one who initiates, begins, imposes, imagines, creates, acts, DOES?

Or, are you one who responds, reacts, cowers, shifts, pulls back, refrains, regrets or puts off?

One Good Dating Tip: Her “Approach Me” Signals

Most women will not approach you. You “get” that, right?

BUT, they WILL give you signals, or “indicators” of interest. In this day and age it is somewhat taboo for a woman to overtly indicate her interest to a man. However, there are ‘ways’ she can signal you to approach her. Lets talk about those now…

One Good Dating Tip: The 3 Reasons To Approach A Woman

There are 3 good reasons to approach a woman. Pay particular attention to the ORDER I put these in, OK?

So, imagine you are on the subway, in a park, in the bookstore, wherever. You are doing something OTHER than trolling for girls. Here is why you should approach:

And The Winners Are…

First, let me thank the guys who sincerely participated in this month’s Carpe Diem contest.

I was REALLY digging the posts, and had a blast following the participants progress across a variety of spectrums.

And the winners are…

One Good Dating Tip: Climb Mt. Kilimanjaro

An actual question I received from a client not too long ago (paraphrased):

“Stephen –
I have to make a decision. I’ve saved around $3500 and wonder if it would be better to either take a seduction training course, or to travel to Kenya with a group and climb Mt. Kilimanjaro. What do you think?”

Do you even need to read on to know my answer?

One Good Dating Tip: Far & Away, The BEST Way To Meet A Woman

Everything I can teach you about meeting and dating women is summed up in one magical moment.

Should this happen to you, as it has happened to me, you’ll know you have travelled a great distance from frustration to success.

“This Is Stephen, That Guy I Was Telling You About”

One Good Dating Tip: Try The Direct Approach

One of my favorite dating tips for men to pass on is my “direct approach” for how to approach a woman.

Why be direct?

It displays confidence, builds self-esteem, is chivalrous (girls like that) and trustworthy…AND is freeing for you.

Pay What You Want For My eBook “How To Get A Girlfriend” (I’m Serious)

For now, at least, I want you to set your own price for “How To Get A Girlfriend”.

Want to pay $10? Fine. Want to pay $25? Fine. Want to pay $99? Really Fine.

It’s up to you. Don’t believe me? Go here now and see:

How To Get A Girlfriend eBook (Pay What You Want Offer)

One Good Dating Tip: Stop Worrying About What To Say

If you find yourself often wondering, obsessing or predominantly focused on what to say to women, or how to talk to women, you, my friend, are barking up the wrong tree.

Sure, it’s important, but nowhere NEAR as important as the YOU that is saying it. Women are attracted by energy NOT words. The energy that is attractive is a…