All Entries in the "Approaching" Category
The Men From The Boys: The Meaning Of The “Art” In Pick-Up
I’ve seen the good PUAs in the field. I know what a good pick-up looks like. And, I know that most guys cannot do it. There is a difference between meeting girls, and being a Pick-Up Artist. Most of you know how to meet girls, but you don’t “get” the art of attracting them. Listen, [...]
7 Tips For The Pick-Up Newbies…Aaah, Babes Sargin’ Babes
PRESENTING: The Pick-Up Newbie Manifesto! Are you new to all this? Fresh off the AFC-boat? Well, I got some good news and some bad news. First the BAD news… It’s easy to get swept away with marketing, forums, blogs, posts, profiles, threads, comments and hype. It’s common to bounce around from forum, to blog, to [...]
The “Opinion Opener” Explained On Video
Hey there – Been working a lot with video recently, and created this little film today. It is a clip of me describing the “opinion opener” last weekend at a talk I gave here in NYC. In it, I use my former roommate Neil Strauss’ “Jealous Girlfriend” opener. I have a number of these, and [...]
Her “Approach Me” Signals
Hey there – Wanted to get a post going here that listed the signs that a woman wants you to approach her. Some of these are obvious, and some are very subtle. But all should be known by a guy who is looking to meet more women. Also, this list excludes the very obvious scenarios [...]
From The Archive: Fun With A “10″ Down Under
Hey, Wanted to pass along today a story from my archive…(am going to do this weekly now until the end of the year) During the Project Hollywood experiment (almost four years ago – WOW), I was known as PlayboyLA, or just – Playboy, which was the name Neil Strauss used for me in “The Game”. [...]
From The Archive…I “Heart” NYC
Hey guys, A rainy Tuesday in NYC calls for…a fun/nutso story from my archive… During the Project Hollywood experiment, I was known as PlayboyLA, or just – Playboy (the name Neil used for me in “The Game”). I used to work for a pick-up company, and the following is a lay-report from those times (posted [...]
How To Meet Women on Halloween
I have received a number of emails this week from guys wanting to know cool ideas for Halloween costumes. What they are REALLY asking are what are some ways to get attention with their costume, and even have people (read: WOMEN) approach you. Well, you could always dress as Hugh Hefner – fully robed, with [...]
Fast and Easy Tips to Avoid Being “Just Friends”
Don’t worry, it happens to each and every one of us. We meet a woman, she is gorgeous, intelligent, and seems into us. And then, just as we are about to move to kiss her, she throws up her hands and delivers the CLASSIC line:A Let’s Just Be Friends Ugh…our hearts drop, we feel embarrassed, [...]
Going For The Kiss
Mailbag time gentlemen. This is where we take a particularly interesting question from someone that we feel challenges A LOT of guys out there. Today’s covers a particularly sensitive topic – how to go for the kiss. Most guys won’t admit it, but they fumble this moment like a rookie running back. Want to be [...]
Master the Skill of Approaching with this SIMPLE Technique…the REVERSAL.
Hey guys. Had an interesting conversation the other night that I wanted to share. Is it just me, or do the best inspirations always come when you least expect them? Anyway, I am a pretty driven guy – and usually find myself out too late working on projects that interest me. I’ve been getting interested [...]
Mailbag: Keys to Finding Your Purpose
I got a note a few days ago from a guy with a really great question. It all relates to the issue of security, and how it plays such a large role in dating and relationships. What it all boils down to is having some sense of purpose higher than just getting laid, or making [...]
She’s Just Not That Into You – At First Glance
There you are, walking down the street, and you lock eyes with an attractive woman. You both hold this stare for as long as you possibly can. Then, you pass her, and after a few paces, glance back only to find she has done just the same thing. Your hear skips a beat, and you [...]
I always be myself when dating with a woman and I really enjoyed it. But this is a great article ...
Sean...
Poor guy. Dude, websites track IP addresses - which means I can blatantly see that you posted as "Elaine". ...
Actually it looks like one person here does know women. And unfortunately that's not the person peddling his wares ...
Good to see someone is actually reading these 'forums'. I didn't get to see them until like 2 years after ...
