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And The Winner Is…(Feb Carpe Diem Contest Wrap-Up)

I want to thank the guys who stuck their necks out this month and lived a little on the edge. By posting your stories and experiences on approaching women, you’ve helped more than just yourself.

The 3 winners of this month’s contest are:

MAILBAG (& My “Carpe Diem” Contest): How To Approach A Woman

Got a GREAT mailbag question and wanted to get it to you asap as it highlights some VERY common challenges guys face when approaching women.

Also, I’ve decided to hold a VERY special contest (with some KILLER prizes) for guys willing to post a comment on their recent experiences approaching women. More on that at the end of this post.

Rich La Ruina’s “Rejection Report” - Why It’s Useful


Every once in a while a pick-up coach comes along who has something to offer which is not only good for guys who want to be PUAs, BUT also for just the average guy who is looking for an edge to his dating skill set.

Even for the guy who is looking to learn how to get a girlfriend…there is something this person teaches which can help.


Richard La Ruina
fits into that category. He’s a guy YOU should pay attention to.

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Podcast - Approaching Women & Making 2009 “The Year”

Are you a listener on my podcast? If not, this is the PERFECT time to become one.

Last week I outlined the 12-steps to dating mastery for 2009. Month by month, I plan to discuss each of these 12-steps thru my podcast.

Lesson 1 is all about approaching women and yesterday I recorded the first part, which is all about the direct approach.

I demo what to say, how to say it, and provide clear and simple body language/tonality tips. You’ll get everything you need to start meeting women TODAY.

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Barry & Stefan Report: “PUA - The Movie”

I recently had an insider’s interview with the producer and casting director for the PUA collaboration movie. Without spoiling too much, I have to say I am very impressed by their choice characters. The resemblances will make this an easy movie to make…

Neil Strauss will be playing the Alien from “A Fire in the Sky.” Director Bryan Singer personally called Neil on his cell phone to offer him the job. Neil accepted the job and was quoted as saying, “I hate my life.”

How to Get a Girlfriend

Here - on video - is my 4-step simplified process to getting a girlfriend, enjoy and have an awesome weekend!

Learn the social skills here:
How to Get a Girlfriend
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The Men From The Boys: The Meaning Of The “Art” In Pick-Up

I’ve seen the good PUAs in the field. I know what a good pick-up looks like. And, I know that most guys cannot do it.
There is a difference between meeting girls, and being a Pick-Up Artist. Most of you know how to meet girls, but you don’t “get” the art of attracting [...]