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	<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:54:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>One Good Dating Tip: A First Date Tip</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/03/11/one-good-dating-tip-a-first-date-tip/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:37:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2127</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/03/11/one-good-dating-tip-a-first-date-tip/"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2128" title="arminarmfirstdate" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2010/03/arminarmfirstdate.png" alt="" width="100" height="120" /></a>First dates are make or break...here's a <strong>dating tip</strong> to help.

The first date is crucial for obvious reasons.  If it bombs, and there is no chemistry, then there will be no 2nd date.  Makes a ton of sense and should not be surprising, particularly for guys who consistently read this blog.]]></description>
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		<title>And The Winner Is&#8230;(Feb Carpe Diem Contest Wrap-Up)</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/03/10/and-the-winner-isfeb-carpe-diem-contest-wrap-up/</link>
		<comments>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/03/10/and-the-winner-isfeb-carpe-diem-contest-wrap-up/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Approaching]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[carpe diem]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2117</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/03/10/and-the-winner-isfeb-carpe-diem-contest-wrap-up/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2118" title="and-the-winner-is-737519" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2010/03/and-the-winner-is-737519-200x250.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="125" /></a>I want to thank the guys who stuck their necks out this month and lived a little on the edge.  By posting your stories and experiences on <a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/02/23/mailbag-how-to-approach-a-woman/#comments">approaching women</a>, you've helped more than just yourself.

The 3 winners of this month's contest are:]]></description>
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		<title>One Good Dating Tip: &#8220;When Do I Kiss The Girl?&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 17:56:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2104</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2010/03/howtokiss.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2105" title="howtokiss" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2010/03/howtokiss.jpg" alt="" width="120" height="120" /></a>EVERYONE asks this one...<strong>"When Do I Kiss The Girl?"</strong>

EVERY GUY wonders it. So, if you've come to this page, you are in good company. No guy, that I've ever met, is 100% sure and confident when he makes his move for that first kiss.]]></description>
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		<title>One Good Dating Tip: Where To Go?</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/03/04/one-good-dating-tip-where-to-go/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:39:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[One Good Dating Tip]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Date Ideas]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips for men]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2010/03/first-date1.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2102" title="Where To Go On Your Date?" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2010/03/first-date1.jpg" alt="" width="116" height="116" /></a>Let's keep it simple.  Instead of a long, drawn-out article with a myriad of details on <a title="dating advice for men" href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/dating-advice/"><strong>dating advice for men</strong></a> - I want to create a series of articles that provide one REALLY GOOD <strong>dating idea</strong> for you to use.

Today's One Good <strong>Dating Tip</strong>: WHERE to take her for a killer date?]]></description>
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		<title>MAILBAG (&#038; My &#8220;Carpe Diem&#8221; Contest): How To Approach A Woman</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/02/23/mailbag-how-to-approach-a-woman/</link>
		<comments>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/02/23/mailbag-how-to-approach-a-woman/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 21:21:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Approaching]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2089</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2010/02/appwomen.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2090" title="appwomen" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2010/02/appwomen.jpg" alt="" width="230" height="185" /></a>Got a GREAT mailbag question and wanted to get it to you asap as it highlights some VERY common challenges guys face when approaching women.

Also, I've decided to hold a VERY special contest (with some KILLER prizes) for guys willing to post a comment on their recent experiences approaching women.  More on that at the end of this post.]]></description>
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		<title>(VIDEO) Christian Hudson&#8217;s &#8220;Unbreakable&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/01/11/video-christian-hudsons-unbreakable/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 00:16:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Interviews]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Multimedia]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[Video]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/06/nickchristian.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1766 alignright" title="nickchristian" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/06/nickchristian-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="120" /></a>
Last summer, Christian Hudson introduced me to a program he was testing on a small group of men he called "Unbreakable".  I was intrigued by some of the content he discussed with me, so I decided to record a video interview with him to get more info. The vid was VERY packed with content - lots of intel &#38; action on a few BIG topics in our little world. Namely:

"Confidence", developing "instinctive" skill with women &#038; more...]]></description>
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		<title>My 1-1 Interview with &#8220;Gambler&#8221;, aka Richard La Ruina</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/11/09/my-1-1-interview-with-gambler-aka-richard-la-ruina/</link>
		<comments>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/11/09/my-1-1-interview-with-gambler-aka-richard-la-ruina/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 22:02:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2064</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/11/gambler-photo.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2066" title="gambler-photo" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/11/gambler-photo.jpg" alt="" width="176" height="130" /></a>Rich La Ruina ("Gambler") was nice enough to spend an hour or so on the phone with me over the weekend.

Now, I've never met him, but after our talk it is clear to me that he is a total PRO at what he does and teaches.  He has a lot to offer.  Also, he seems like a total A+ guy - very very cool and down to earth.  Definitely worth a listen.  Here's a link to the audio:

<a href="http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/gamblerinterview.html">Click Here to Listen to the Stephen Nash/Gambler Conversation</a>
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		<title>Rich La Ruina&#8217;s &#8220;Rejection Report&#8221; - Why It&#8217;s Useful</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/10/30/rich-la-ruinas-rejection-report-why-its-useful/</link>
		<comments>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/10/30/rich-la-ruinas-rejection-report-why-its-useful/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 21:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Approaching]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Gambler]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Rejection]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Richard La Ruina]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2048</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<a rel="attachment wp-att-2049" href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?attachment_id=2049"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2049" title="gambler" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/10/gambler-300x183.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="120" /></a>
Every once in a while a pick-up coach comes along who has something to offer which is not only good for guys who want to be PUAs, BUT also for just the average guy who is looking for an edge to his dating skill set.

Even for the guy who is looking to learn how to get a girlfriend...there is something this person teaches which can help.

<strong>
Richard La Ruina</strong> fits into that category.  He's a guy YOU should pay attention to.]]></description>
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		<title>The Feminism Problem (Part IV): Redefining Masculinity</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/10/27/masculinity-part-ii-redefining-masculinity/</link>
		<comments>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/10/27/masculinity-part-ii-redefining-masculinity/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 16:48:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Featured]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Feminism]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Masculinity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feminism]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[masculinity]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2013</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<a rel="attachment wp-att-2015" href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?attachment_id=2015"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2015" title="muscles1" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/10/muscles1-168x250.jpg" alt="" width="128" height="190" /></a>
<strong>"What does it mean to be a MAN?"</strong>

Not in 1950, 1850, or 400050 BC, but TODAY.  What, in the midst of all of the forces we must deal with on a daily basis, does it mean to send masculine energy into the world organically?  It's not enough to think this question, or discuss it, or read about it - though that is a necessary start.  One must though arrive at it in an organic, honest way.  From there, we must face the pain of our realities and start to truly grow.]]></description>
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		<title>The Feminism Problem (Part III): Stop Objectifying Women</title>
		<link>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/09/24/masculinity-part-i-stop-objectifying-women/</link>
		<comments>http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/09/24/masculinity-part-i-stop-objectifying-women/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 18:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Nash</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Featured]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Female Psychology]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Feminism]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Inner Game]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Masculinity]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=1997</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/09/burningman.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1998" title="burningman" src="http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/uploads//2009/09/burningman-164x250.jpg" alt="" width="120" height="188" /></a>Masculinism.  Ever hear of it?  There, in fact, IS a 'movement' of sorts for men...but it is largely intellectual and ineffectual.  It grew as a response to the feminism movement, but has gone mostly nowhere in impacting men's lives.  Mostly, there is the appropriate advocacy of men's rights via the judicial system.  But, what we're discussing here in this series is something much different.

Lets talk about stopping "objectifying" women and how it is the first phase of real development for men.]]></description>
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