http://www.datingsecretsformen.com NYC Dating Coach Stephen Nash's Blog Tue, 24 Aug 2010 17:44:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 en http://www.datingsecretsformen.com http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/images/favicon.jpg http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/08/24/nyc-dating-coach-themes-ive-noticed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/08/24/nyc-dating-coach-themes-ive-noticed/#comments Tue, 24 Aug 2010 17:29:26 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2780 As a dating coach here in NYC, you'd likely think that most of the guys I work with are very different, diverse, experiencing very different challenges vis-a-vis women and dating. If that's what you think, you'd be wrong...very very wrong. It's truly amazing how each of the guys who come to me tend to struggle with the exact same things. And, very regularly, the solutions to what they struggle with are usually the same as well. It has caused me to think that there is a true epidemic of fear and insecurity within our male population, which is usually the root cause of his struggles with women.]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/08/24/nyc-dating-coach-themes-ive-noticed/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/07/06/the-ultimate-first-impression/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/07/06/the-ultimate-first-impression/#comments Tue, 06 Jul 2010 16:37:36 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2776 I've posted a new video over on my "How To Get A Girlfriend" eBook blog which I call "The Ultimate First Impression". In it, I teach you these 3 concepts (plus tons more, these are just the main ones): Baiting, High Social Value & The Ultimate First Impression Go here to watch it now: The Ultimate First Impression Video]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/07/06/the-ultimate-first-impression/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/06/11/guy-talk-what-is-your-dating-blind-spot/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/06/11/guy-talk-what-is-your-dating-blind-spot/#comments Fri, 11 Jun 2010 15:33:55 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2765 Everyone has a blind spot. And in the area of dating and women, many men have very prominent blind spots. By definition, we might be unable to diagnose ourselves. But, if we can generate an interesting discussion on blind spots we have noticed in OTHERS, we might be helped to take a different look at ourselves.]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/06/11/guy-talk-what-is-your-dating-blind-spot/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/06/01/are-you-a-force-or-a-consequence/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/06/01/are-you-a-force-or-a-consequence/#comments Tue, 01 Jun 2010 20:01:24 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2670 Big question today. People are either one, or the other. Are you one who initiates, begins, imposes, imagines, creates, acts, DOES? Or, are you one who responds, reacts, cowers, shifts, pulls back, refrains, regrets or puts off?]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/06/01/are-you-a-force-or-a-consequence/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/27/one-good-dating-tip-take-the-spotlight/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/27/one-good-dating-tip-take-the-spotlight/#comments Thu, 27 May 2010 17:06:35 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2660 In socializing, and in particular with women, you have to be willing to take up space. Being confident enough to take the spotlight for a minute or two is strong and healthy. You must be willing to do this. ]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/27/one-good-dating-tip-take-the-spotlight/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/25/one-good-dating-tip-when-to-say-can-i-buy-you-a-drink/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/25/one-good-dating-tip-when-to-say-can-i-buy-you-a-drink/#comments Tue, 25 May 2010 17:58:58 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2650 If a woman smiles at you from across the room, how do you approach her? She's practically SCREAMING for you to come and talk to her. But, what is NOW the best way to begin the conversation? Before you even begin to move towards her, remember to keep it simple and never do more than you really need to do. Use the E/S opener.]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/25/one-good-dating-tip-when-to-say-can-i-buy-you-a-drink/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/21/project-hollywood-from-mels-to-mayhem-video/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/21/project-hollywood-from-mels-to-mayhem-video/#comments Fri, 21 May 2010 15:01:12 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2626 I was recently in LA, staying with my friend Cameron Teone, and we HAD to return to the Sunset Strip and revisit Project Hollywood. While we were dining at Mel's (where else?) we got the idea to quickly film the walk from the diner, up the hill, to the house. Check out the video we shot...]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/21/project-hollywood-from-mels-to-mayhem-video/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/19/one-good-dating-tip-her-approach-me-signals/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/19/one-good-dating-tip-her-approach-me-signals/#comments Wed, 19 May 2010 20:18:39 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2612 Most women will not approach you. You "get" that, right? BUT, they WILL give you signals, or "indicators" of interest. In this day and age it is somewhat taboo for a woman to overtly indicate her interest to a man. However, there are ‘ways’ she can signal you to approach her. Lets talk about those now...]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/19/one-good-dating-tip-her-approach-me-signals/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/17/one-good-dating-tip-enlist-a-bfff/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/17/one-good-dating-tip-enlist-a-bfff/#comments Mon, 17 May 2010 16:58:09 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2600 By now you should know that planning parties, events and outings is the BEST way to meet women (didn't know that? Read "How To Get A Girlfriend" ). For the *BEST* results you need to enlist a partner in "social" crime... Your BFFF Your BFFF=Best Female Friend…"Forever" (sorry, had to).]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/17/one-good-dating-tip-enlist-a-bfff/feed/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/14/my-interview-on-the-barry-kirkey-radio-show/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/14/my-interview-on-the-barry-kirkey-radio-show/#comments Fri, 14 May 2010 16:33:32 +0000 Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/?p=2592 So, I caught up yesterday with my old friend Barry Kirkey on his online radio show. The chat lasted for about 45 minutes. He gets me to divulge the backstory of my breakup last year. I talk about the "scene" in the home we shared when I returned from a business trip. It wasn't pretty. We talk a bit about "Suicide Girls" (and why you should not date a Suicide Girl...) and other stuff. Listen to it here...]]> http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2010/05/14/my-interview-on-the-barry-kirkey-radio-show/feed/