How To Pick Up Girls

Being a former Master “Pick-Up Artist”, I know a thing or two about how to pick up girls.

It’s a 3-step process:

How To Pick Up Girls - Step 1

First, you’ve gotta be able to approach her. I call this step “engage”.

For guys, this part is the most difficult. Going from not talking to a beautiful women to talking to her can be a shock to the system.

So, you MUST anticipate approach anxiety. It is normal to feel fear before approaching a woman.

It doesn’t exactly make sense, but it is NORMAL. You must learn to feel the fear, and yet approach her anyway. Easier said than done.

Some techniques for beginning that conversation are VERY helpful and important. If you have a good technique like an opinion opener or a teaser opener, you’ll find yourself much less afraid when it comes time to making your approach.

So, I suggest putting a few of those in your back pocket for when the time is right. You can find a number of very strong approach techniques on this website.

How To Pick Up Girls - Step 2

Now that you’ve made your approach, and are in a conversation with her…you have to HOOK her.

That’s right - you have to get to a point where you are more interesting than what she was doing before you approached her! Makes sense, right?

How do you hook her into the conversation? The most important thing to do is to create sexual tension by:

• Flirting with her
• Telling her funny and engaging stories
• Bait her

Baiting is a skill I focus a lot on, as it’s very smooth and not at all manipulative (even though the name “baiting” seems to indicate that). It’s a tremendously empowering skill for a guy.

These three skills are the BEST ones to create sexual tension (aka, attraction) and pass that all-important “hook point”.

How To Pick Up Girls - Step 3

Hooking is the hardest part for guys (not approaching), but step 3 is the most important…

Connecting

You’ve gotta build some comfort and trust with women in order to secure her phone number in a solid way (they’ve been known to give out fakes, you know). And, you’ve gotta connect with her in order to have her be excited to go out on a date with you.

How do you do this? Pretty simple.

Establish 3 commonalities with her. No less (for sure), and more if you can. You have to skillfully be able to move the conversation from topic to topic to discover these, but with a bit of know-how, it is very simple to do.

Don’t go into a topic too deeply, which can be tempting. It’s much better to lead the conversation on to more topics, so that you have the chance to find more and more in common. Quantity rules over quality, when first meeting a woman.

If you do, it will seem “fated” that the two of you go out on a date.

This 3-step structure: Engage/Hook/Connect - I teach in all my programs and products.

Now, it’s time for the all-important question…

How To Pick Up Girls - Getting Her Phone Number

Here’s what to say:

“I’ve gotta run, but it’s been a nice surprise meeting and chatting with you. How can we continue this at another time?”

She will now give you her number, which you will call the next day. I’m not a believer at all in waiting 2-3 days before you call, as it sets an atmosphere of “game”, which is NOT productive (trust me man).

Want to actually learn these skills? It’s pretty easy. I can take you from the sidelines to the field with my Dating Skills Master Class, which you can sign-up for here:

Download How to Get a Girlfriend Here

Thanks for stopping by!

Stephen.