How To Kiss A Girl

At some point in his life, every guy can use sound advice on how to kiss a girl for the first time.

If you’re kissing her the second time, congratulations - she liked it enough the first time to have a second.

Consider this a public service for the women out there, about to be POORLY kissed for the nth time…

How can a guy be both sensitive and bold? How can you avoid these terrible labels: “tongue-slammer”, “meek”, “weak”, and/or “sloppy”?

Here are my 10 kissing tips for guys:

How To Kiss A Girl - The Timing

1.) You can usually can sense when it is the right time, but you have to learn to trust your instincts.

2.) Here’s a test - comment on her fragrance, and lean-in to her neck for a light sniff. Does she flinch when you get close? If so, she’s not ready yet. If not, it’s time to make your move.

3.) If you’re in doubt, allow the conversation to pause and just smile at her. Does she hold your gaze and smile back? If so, she is definitely ready.

4.) What you want to do next is to subtly tilt your head towards hers. Then, subtly tilt it to the side (I always tilt right first…maybe because I’m right-handed). She should be mirroring you at this point.

Slowly, your faces will reach each other, and your lips will touch.

You are now kissing.

How To Kiss A Girl - Less Is WAY More

The first kiss is NOT when you open your mouth and go for the full french kiss, tongue-job.

Kissing is an art: LESS is more.

5.) When your lips touch for the first time - pull away a bit afterwards, and savor it. ENJOY the fact that you are kissing this beautiful woman.

6.) Next, kiss her again, but this time hold your lips together for a bit longer, allowing for MORE of the lips to touch.

7.) Bring your left hand up and gently stroke her cheek while you gently/lightly kiss her.

8.) How to French Kiss - it is fine to French, but do not overdo this. All you are doing here is gently touching/caressing her tongue with yours. Do not fill her mouth with your tongue…that’s tacky.

9.) If things become passionate, definitely do the following:

• Move your left hand to the back of her neck, and gently grasp with your fisted hand the hair at the nape.
• Gently pull down, and not too far - just so it feels like there is the slightest pull from the scalp.
• This feels incredibly good, while also bringing your faces even closer together.

10.) It’s nice to subtly savor her lower lip by either nibbling it, or caressing it with your tongue. If you ever find that you’re doing that, guess what…she LIKES you.

How To Kiss A Girl - When To Stop

If this is a first kiss, end it after a minute. Don’t let it turn into a long, drawn out make-out…particularly if it’s in public. That’s classless.

Your goal is to leave her wanting MORE. Be sure to be the one to end it by pulling away first, OK?

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Thanks!

Stephen Nash