How To Flirt

Teaching men how to flirt…ain’t so easy.

Why, you say?

Because flirting causes guys to roll back the “nice guy” syndrome that many of us are infected with and instead, challenge women and create…

TENSION.

Teaching a guy how to do that, how to flirt, is basically asking him to go against his well-worn instincts he learned as a kid (probably) and start doing things VERY differently.

This can take some time, and some aches ‘n pains on the part of the guy I am working with. However, the payoff in learning how to flirt with girls, is an ability to “attract” women to you, getting them to chase and pursue you.

How To Flirt - A Definition

“To make playfully romantic or sexual overtures.”

Sexual tension is the RESULT of good flirting and it’s easily the hardest concept to get when working with men who struggle with women, dating and relationships.

Sexual tension is essentially when there exists polarity, magnetism or, the all-important, “attraction”.

To create this requires you to learn how to flirt.

Flirting is where we push away with our words, and pull towards with our energy. The classic scenario is where the man treats the woman as being slightly beneath him in coolness (I emphasize slightly, as too much comes across as cocky - which signals insecurity). You might call her a “brat”, while smiling at her - the word “brat” is an insult, but the smile is an invitation.

It takes balls to flirt. It indicates automatically a sexual interest, which can be uncomfortable for guys.

What you are looking for are opportunities to lightly insult her, point out her flaws (not physical, of course), treat her like a little sister that you don’t take seriously. And do it all with a SMILE.

How To Flirt - Examples

“Are you like Melissa Rivers’ stand-in or something?”…(If she teases you about your clothing)

“Are you trying to pick-me up? What, you going to buy me a drink next?” (misinterpret her behavior as chasing YOU & trying to get YOU into bed)

“Wow, your the coolest person I’ve met in the past five minutes. Your my new best friend. Just do me a favor and don’t tell my mom that we met in a bar.”

“You know…I usually charge for that.” (If a girl makes any physical advance on you at all such as: hug, touch, push, feels clothing etc)

“You know, me and you, we would just never match – we are too alike, and that just means a load of drama and heartache…” (This is Mystery’s line and it’s the BEST flirt I’ve ever heard.)

Beautiful women are not used to hearing things like these at all.

If you struggle with learning how to flirt, I suggest taking these (or the many other examples that you can find out there) and practicing them on women LIVE. I strongly believe in using the scripts to learn the SKILLS - but then drop the training wheels.

How To Flirt - Golden Rule: Have FUN

If YOU are having fun then you will definitely translate your sense of humor clearly. If you are inexperienced, you are likely to mix the signals. You might have to bomb a time or two in order to clean up your signals - there is no replacement for live experience.

If you can do this a few times, you will start to “get it” and explode your conversations with power.

If you want the ability, the power, to choose which women enter your social life, and who get to date you, then you’ll need to learn more skills like how to flirt.

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Stephen Nash.