The Natural Art of the Pick-up

Date Ideas

Date Ideas

Coming up with truly great date ideas is something that can be very challenging for men.

How many guys out there have consistently fallen back on the “Dinner & A Movie” idea? One word - BORING.

Want to be really interesting to women? Start doing things DIFFERENTLY.

First of all, you must understand that what you choose to do with a woman on a date reveals a lot about your personality. So, if you fall back on “ordinary” dating ideas, you will be seen as…ordinary.

Do you want that?? Of course not. Women want excitement and adventure. Why not use your first (or 2nd, or 3rd…) date to GIVE her that?

Before we completely bemoan the classic “Dinner and a Movie”, let’s at least see why it is partially useful, if not totally ordinary & played:

1) It has TWO different activites;
2) It has TWO different venues.

As principles, these are very good and useful.

If you are dead-set on this, at least take her to a cool restaurant, and an interesting flick.

Date Ideas - Dating Rules

There are three dating rules to follow when formulating your date ideas:

1) It must be FUN;
2) It must involve more than one activity;
3) It must happen in more than one venue.

Ideas for DateDate Ideas - First Date Tips

Lets elaborate on these to reveal some solid first date tips:

1) FUN - try to plan an activity at the beginning of the date which will automatically break the ice, and help you both relax. Art/photo galleries are great places to go.

2) More than one activity - two things “to-do” at least. Dinner and a movie are two different activities. I like to be more creative and inventive. Step out of the box and show her that you see the world differently than the average chum…being adventurous is attractive.

3) More than one venue - By going to different places, not only do you both relax, but you also get to see more than just one side of someone. Environments help people socialize around different topics. Change environments at least once on a date. By having to MOVE from one to the other helps people to relax too as their bodies are now engaged. In my experience, this can be very helpful to both of you.

In my ebook How To Get A Girlfriend, I cover even more date ideas, as well as giving you tons of dating tips including my first kiss game plan (which should NOT happen at the end of the date).

It challenges you to be different, and to be an individual - say goodbye to the average joe.

You can download How To Get A Girlfriend here:

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Or, feel free to browse my site. I’ve packed it full of dating tips and “meet women” advice. If you can’t find what your looking for, drop me a line or post a comment to me on the blog.

Thanks for stopping by,

Stephen