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My Interview on the Barry Kirkey Radio Show

So, I caught up yesterday with my old friend Barry Kirkey on his online radio show. The chat lasted for about 45 minutes.

He gets me to divulge the backstory of my breakup last year. I talk about the “scene” in the home we shared when I returned from a business trip. It wasn’t pretty. We talk a bit about “Suicide Girls” (and why you should not date a Suicide Girl…) and other stuff. Listen to it here…

One Good Dating Tip: The 3 Reasons To Approach A Woman

There are 3 good reasons to approach a woman. Pay particular attention to the ORDER I put these in, OK?

So, imagine you are on the subway, in a park, in the bookstore, wherever. You are doing something OTHER than trolling for girls. Here is why you should approach:

One Good Dating Tip: How To Flirt (Part B)


Listening…

Yeah, it’s an unsexy, unflashy, seemingly innocently banal…SKILL.

And guess what? It’s REALLY important. Seems too simple, right? Like – “why is Stephen Nash, dating coach extraordinaire (*cough*), writing a post about LISTENING of all things”??

Without it, you’re SUNK.

Guy Talk: How Do You Answer This?

I’m currently working up a new program I call the “How To Get A Girlfriend Insider’s Guide“. It’s a 6-month subscription program that allows people deep access into my process for dating success, and a clear path for how to get a girlfriend. One aspect of this new program is a monthly interview I conduct with an expert in the field.

There’s this ONE killer question I’ve been asking everyone that I now want to ask of YOU.

And The Winners Are…

First, let me thank the guys who sincerely participated in this month’s Carpe Diem contest.

I was REALLY digging the posts, and had a blast following the participants progress across a variety of spectrums.

And the winners are…

One Good Dating Tip: How To Flirt (Part A)

The Single Most Important Social Skill For Attracting Women On The Planet Without Question Is…

Flirting (of course)

Flirting is the art of poking fun at someone playfully, while simultaneously amplifying sexual tension. Learning how to flirt is part science, and mostly art.

One Good Dating Tip: Climb Mt. Kilimanjaro

An actual question I received from a client not too long ago (paraphrased):

“Stephen –
I have to make a decision. I’ve saved around $3500 and wonder if it would be better to either take a seduction training course, or to travel to Kenya with a group and climb Mt. Kilimanjaro. What do you think?”

Do you even need to read on to know my answer?

One Good Dating Tip: Far & Away, The BEST Way To Meet A Woman

Everything I can teach you about meeting and dating women is summed up in one magical moment.

Should this happen to you, as it has happened to me, you’ll know you have travelled a great distance from frustration to success.

“This Is Stephen, That Guy I Was Telling You About”

April Carpe Diem Contest – 1 Week Left!

We’ve got basically one week to go until May 1st (Saturday) when we here at CEIC will pick the 2 iPad winners for this month’s Carpe Diem Contest.

I must say we’ve had some AWESOME submissions thus far, but there is NO CLEAR frontrunner. There are a number of guys I’d list in a category A, and a bunch more in category B – but no one is standing out right now.

One Good Dating Tip: How To Compliment A Woman

First, allow me to eliminate any “bad” thoughts you might have about complimenting women by making this statement:

You SHOULD compliment a woman…if you really, really mean it AND if you do it the right way.

There’s some bad info floating around that says you shouldn’t compliment women. The guys who say that are single, bitter and lonely. Don’t listen to them.

One Good Dating Tip: Build A Social Lifestyle

Do you do things alone?

Do you spend a lot of time at home?

Do you have 3 friends who could go with you – TONIGHT – to the Laker game; U2 concert; Yankee game; Saints game?

One Good Dating Tip: Sarging Is For Losers

A few years ago I produced a product called “The Natural Art of the Pick-Up”, where I break down the SKILLS needed to naturally attract women (sans gimmickry and BS).

Prior to the launch, I did a webinar where I broke down “The Code of the Natural”.

The first point on the list drew a LOT of ire of a number of callers:

“No Sarging”