One Good Dating Tip: Take The Spotlight!
In socializing, and in particular with women, you have to be willing to take up space.
Being confident enough to take the spotlight for a minute or two is strong and healthy. You must be willing to do this. In the beginning, it might be uncomfortable but it does improve over time. You have a right to be on this planet, going for what you want, so don’t be scared to take up some space in a conversation.
I had to get used to the feeling of panic, nerves, anxiety and the like while telling a story, or flirting, or baiting…to get GOOD at that skill. If you lack social experience, it will feel very weird and awkward to take up space socially. You must get used to this.
Practice, practice, practice…
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Modern Man's Online Dating Guide | Jul 31, 2010 | Reply
Rule of thumb for Alpha Male – Take up space! Enlarge your territory.
Smith Daniels | Jan 20, 2011 | Reply
I dated a woman once with the same attitude. She believed that all her ills could be cured by this energy medicine movement she got involved in…and forced me into joining as well for a one time fee of $1500. Eventually, our relationship dissolved, as did the energy medicine organization because it was a load of crap. Good luck.
Rick | Nov 21, 2011 | Reply
This is something that I have to get used to doing. I’m so introverted that it’s hard for me to get into that frame of mind to take the spotlight. But i’ve been pushing myself everytime i go to social places and hopefully overcome this anxiety.