Archive for May, 2010

One Good Dating Tip: Take The Spotlight!

In socializing, and in particular with women, you have to be willing to take up space.

Being confident enough to take the spotlight for a minute or two is strong and healthy. You must be willing to do this.

One Good Dating Tip: When To Say “Can I Buy You A Drink?”

If a woman smiles at you from across the room, how do you approach her? She’s practically SCREAMING for you to come and talk to her. But, what is NOW the best way to begin the conversation?

Before you even begin to move towards her, remember to keep it simple and never do more than you really need to do.

Use the E/S opener.

Project Hollywood (VIDEO): From Mel’s To Mayhem

I was recently in LA, staying with my friend Cameron Teone, and we HAD to return to the Sunset Strip and revisit Project Hollywood.

While we were dining at Mel’s (where else?) we got the idea to quickly film the walk from the diner, up the hill, to the house. Check out the video we shot…

One Good Dating Tip: Her “Approach Me” Signals

Most women will not approach you. You “get” that, right?

BUT, they WILL give you signals, or “indicators” of interest. In this day and age it is somewhat taboo for a woman to overtly indicate her interest to a man. However, there are ‘ways’ she can signal you to approach her. Lets talk about those now…

One Good Dating Tip: Enlist A BFFF

By now you should know that planning parties, events and outings is the BEST way to meet women (didn’t know that? Read “How To Get A Girlfriend” ). For the *BEST* results you need to enlist a partner in “social” crime…

Your BFFF

Your BFFF=Best Female Friend…”Forever” (sorry, had to).

My Interview on the Barry Kirkey Radio Show

So, I caught up yesterday with my old friend Barry Kirkey on his online radio show. The chat lasted for about 45 minutes.

He gets me to divulge the backstory of my breakup last year. I talk about the “scene” in the home we shared when I returned from a business trip. It wasn’t pretty. We talk a bit about “Suicide Girls” (and why you should not date a Suicide Girl…) and other stuff. Listen to it here…

One Good Dating Tip: The 3 Reasons To Approach A Woman

There are 3 good reasons to approach a woman. Pay particular attention to the ORDER I put these in, OK?

So, imagine you are on the subway, in a park, in the bookstore, wherever. You are doing something OTHER than trolling for girls. Here is why you should approach:

One Good Dating Tip: How To Flirt (Part B)

Listening…

Yeah, it’s an unsexy, unflashy, seemingly innocently banal…SKILL.

And guess what? It’s REALLY important. Seems too simple, right? Like – “why is Stephen Nash, dating coach extraordinaire (*cough*), writing a post about LISTENING of all things”??

Without it, you’re SUNK.

Guy Talk: How Do You Answer This?

I’m currently working up a new program I call the “How To Get A Girlfriend Insider’s Guide“. It’s a 6-month subscription program that allows people deep access into my process for dating success, and a clear path for how to get a girlfriend. One aspect of this new program is a monthly interview I conduct with an expert in the field.

There’s this ONE killer question I’ve been asking everyone that I now want to ask of YOU.

And The Winners Are…

First, let me thank the guys who sincerely participated in this month’s Carpe Diem contest.

I was REALLY digging the posts, and had a blast following the participants progress across a variety of spectrums.

And the winners are…