One Good Dating Tip: How To Flirt (Part A)
The Single Most Important Social Skill For Attracting Women On The Planet Without Question Is…
Flirting (of course)
Flirting is the art of poking fun at someone playfully, while simultaneously amplifying sexual tension. Learning how to flirt is part science, and mostly art. Meaning: You won’t get good at flirting by reading this page. Rather: You Must Learn This By Experience.
Treat her like your younger sister, who is slightly quirky, and maybe in need of “extra help”.
Or, misinterpret her actions as her flirting with you, misbehaving, or otherwise “up to no good”.
This playful teasing is known as “flirting”. Ideally, you can blend in a bit of cockiness, which when combined with humor is an explosive combination.
One note on being cocky – don’t overdo it. How many times have I seen a guy go out to a bar or club and not notice if the woman is having fun talking with him. He will always ruin his chances by not paying attention, and blow the opportunity by not toning down the cockiness. This is a sign of both low social intelligence, and insecurity.
Guys who are purely cocky are insecure and considered arrogant. They have to bring down someone else to make themselves feel good. Now, it is fine to be cocky, but you better mix in the humor.
Your gauge should be whether or not she is having FUN. Otherwise, she will think you are a jerk.
Flirting is the perfect way to maintain and continue a conversation with a woman. During the “hook” phase (phase 2 in my 3-step process), you should rely on flirting until she is asking questions of you…
It helps to “hook” her by revealing your sense of humor while creating sexual tension. Another way to think of flirting is that you are purposely creating a negative emotion. If you combine it with humor, this slight insult will come across as…flirting.
You might call her a “brat”. This is a negative thing to say, but if you do so with a smile, it instantly becomes flirtatious.
Enjoy the weekend.
Sn.
P.S. Part B is coming soon.
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About the Author: Stephen Nash is the founder of Cutting Edge Image Consulting. He is an Original Pick-up Artist and a well documented expert. Stephen has worked with thousands of clients, and is the author of the best-selling 
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David Black | May 1, 2010 | Reply
One thing I like to do also, is joke about violence. Like, “I’m goona show you the back of my hand if you keep up the cheek.” <said with a wry smile OBVIOUSLY, and with the tone that shows you are only teasing/playing. If she giggles, you’re doing it right.
Stephen, you’re right, there is no substitute for experience.
Mike @ As Seen on TV | May 30, 2010 | Reply
I’ve done a bit of reading as of late on suggestions from “pick up artists” and they have also mentioned the tips in the following article. I’ve made the mistake of overdoing it with the cockiness and coming across as arrogant so I need gauge that as well. I find touching or Kino as they call it can help build sexual tension and this has been something i’ve noticed really makes girls comfortable if done right.