One Good Dating Tip: “Huh?”
Want to know the WORST response you can ever get from a woman socially?
It’s not:
“You? HA! I have no interest in you – don’t talk to me fool!”
Nor is it:
“I have a boyfriend”
It also isn’t:
“Hey girls – look at THIS guy…what a fool! He thinks he can talk to me!”
Those replies are often what most men fear when beginning a conversation with a woman, but none are the worst reply that you can get. In fact, handled deftly, the above can be navigated rather easily. But, interestingly, they RARELY if EVER happen.
No, the most often reply, and easily the WORST reply, is the dreaded…
“Huh?”
You know, where you mumble your words out of nervousness so she cannot even hear you.
Too many men approach a woman, work up all the nerve to do so, overcome so much physical resistance to place themselves in front of her…only to mumble their words OR simply not project their voices over the din of the environment leading her to HAVE to say her first word EVER to you…
“Huh?”
Be heard, in other words. In fact, be TOO loud. That’s WAY better than the unrecoverably bad first impression of being barely audible.
You’ve done so much just to get in front of her, so you might as well be heard by her too.
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Ricardo | Apr 15, 2010 | Reply
Yes, I know what you mean…
Sometimes I started speaking but I run out of air in my lungs, so at the end of the sentence I made some squeaky voice… it sounds funny but it’s and awkward situation
To prevent this I take one or more deep breaths, it also helps me to relax and then I smile of course.
Dating | May 1, 2010 | Reply
Online dating and socializing is a fun way to meet people. I have met a lot of great people thru chats, IM, e-mail. You can talk to anyone from your own back yard to the other side of the world. Granted it can be dangerous if you do not follow the rules, but so is conventional dating. I wont meet someone within the first week of chatting. And never meet anyone alone…always bring a friend and meet in a public place. Stick to those little rules and you should stay safe. There are more pros to online dating and socializing than there are cons. It is so much fun. You should try it.