Archive for March, 2010

Read This Book: Linchpin by Seth Godin

On the surface, Seth Godin’s newest book Linchpin: Are You Indispensable? has absolutely NOTHING to do with dating.

It’s true, it doesn’t dive into techniques for meeting women, where to take a woman, when to kiss her etc. BUT, what it does do is point you (or anyone) in the direction of being happier, more fulfilled, more generous and more…YOU.

And isn’t this what you’re looking for?

How To Get A New Girlfriend (aka, How To Deal With A Break-Up)

It was basically one year ago today that I suffered the worst break-up of my life. I cannot compare it to anything else I’ve experienced in my life frankly.

It also involved a devastating betrayal (hard to say, harder to experience).

I want to tell you a little bit about this, AND to share the ways I got through it.

One Good Dating Tip: Go For 8′s

In order to understand this article, you’ll have to allow me to use the classic – and super tacky – numerical rating system for women (which I loathe).

You know, the one where you call one girl a “5″ and another a “9″ and profess that you only date “10s” and that your last girlfriend was a “9.322″.

I think you should go for 8′s.
Not 9′s.
And definitely not 10′s.

Pay What You Want For My eBook “How To Get A Girlfriend” (I’m Serious)

For now, at least, I want you to set your own price for “How To Get A Girlfriend”.

Want to pay $10? Fine. Want to pay $25? Fine. Want to pay $99? Really Fine.

It’s up to you. Don’t believe me? Go here now and see:

How To Get A Girlfriend eBook (Pay What You Want Offer)

Online Dating Stats Reveal The Lies Men & Women Tell (INFOGRAPHIC)

We’ve had an interesting back and forth here on the blog in the last few days re: online dating.

Well, the absolutely AWESOME website Online Schools recently did a survey that dispels a lot of the myths that exist with online dating.

One Good Dating Tip: Stop Worrying About What To Say

If you find yourself often wondering, obsessing or predominantly focused on what to say to women, or how to talk to women, you, my friend, are barking up the wrong tree.

Sure, it’s important, but nowhere NEAR as important as the YOU that is saying it. Women are attracted by energy NOT words. The energy that is attractive is a…

One Good Dating Tip: If It Seems Weird, It IS Weird

Full disclosure – my first exposure to the dating/pick-up/seduction community was via a program that used NLP and hypnosis to seduce women.

I just threw up a little in my mouth writing that.

That’s the truth though, and it helped me only VERY little…and nowhere near as much as other, more mainstream, more real world programs eventually did.

One Good Dating Tip: Value Begats Women (Here’s How)

I like metaphors.

Imagine you want to plant a beautiful tree. You would first need to find a perfect spot for this tree, and “till the soil” before planting. Over the period of a few weeks, this would prepare the ground for the seed to grow into a healthy sapling and further into a strong, stable tree.

Giving value is HOW to till the soil of relationships. Giving value is also HOW to become attractive to women.

One Good Dating Tip: Stop Worrying About “Attraction”

Men are confused.

Oh, and the ones who have been exposed to the varieties of dating, seduction & pick-up methodologies out there, are even MORE confused than those who haven’t.

I want you to simplify and experience real-world success FAST. Here’s how…

One Good Dating Tip: Playful Kino

Playful kino, done correctly, says a lot about a guy.

What is kino? It’s when we touch a woman. If you touch her arm, her hand, her shoulder, her face…this is all “kino”. Now, there are good and not-do-good types of kino. We want to focus on the good type – playful kino.

One Good Dating Tip: How To Get A Girls Number

Ever wonder how to get a girls number? What is the single BEST way to ask for her number?

Here is my experience with this challenge, and what I discovered as the single BEST way to ask for her phone number.

One Good Dating Tip: A First Date Tip

The first date is crucial for obvious reasons. If it bombs, and there is no chemistry, then there will be no 2nd date. This should not be surprising, particularly for guys who consistently read this blog.

You cannot FORCE chemistry, nor can you predict everything that will happen on the date and be therefore prepared for it. But, if you really dig the girl, the first date will feel like diving off of a high dive. Here’s a GREAT tip that can help…