We need more femininity in this world and society in my opinion. More feminism as well. The core values and beliefs of feminism (if guys would take the time to actually understand them) are the building blocks of what makes the human race beautiful. It is alive and empowers most women and gives them all the far advanced tools they have to run circles around men in pretty much everything. More importantly it makes women truly closer to godliness and very special.

There lies another problem for the male demographic, they cannot and will not stand for women being better at anything. Nor admit to it.
They have to control, win, hurt, force themselves, and fuck over every person and situation so they can be on top so to speak!

And If women are taking a more ‘masculine’ role in relationships you could have fooled me. They are quite content to be who they are. They are dissatisfied with the males who don’t fulfill their roles nor truly show women their emotions, feelings, and inevitably what’s inside their heart. It’s all always games, physical gratification, bragging about conquests, and continuing to objectify the same women these idiots have the sole objective of sleeping with.

No, feminism hasn’t caused a change in polarity. It has simply caused men to feel more insecure, more aware of their inadequacies because they are being taken to task, and more aware of the frustration women justifiably feel towards this pathetic male controlled society. f it makes guys do violent idiotic desperate baffoon things, so be it. They need to be put in a state of clarity. This sexism that has run rampant for ages is going to stop, eventually. The kind that has held women back and blamed them for all of man’s ills, all their lack of responsilities that they would much rather blame on women then hold accountability for.

You think there is an imbalance tilted in favor of the female gender in social circles? Are you kidding me? Lemme enlighten you, women are at a distinct disadvantage, are paid less, not recognized as much as men for their achievements, treated poorly, cast in negative lights with all the double standards, and forced to listen to guys like the author whine when there’s one miniscule tiny thing in this life that a guy can’t control or hold the fucking power in. Again, are you kidding me. Women need to take power back and start being treated as equals. It will happen, enter our first female president, I can assure you!
I am a stark male feminist and will continue to do my part to make sure all the insecure worthless pathetic guys of this culture continue to whine as the field starts to become for even, the scales tilt more even. And again, women will be treated the right way in time. Feminism is the ideal set of beliefs. And I completely feel for/understand/empathize with/know the plight women have been suffering for ages. Every singular guy who lacks character, decency, and anything inside of him will continue to try to put women down and hold them back, but they will fail.

Whether you choose to be yourself, exert your true beliefs and feelings, and not care about how this male controlled society views you is the key. You have to be strong inside yourself. Confidence and lack of need for validation is so sexy to women. So is mystery, intrigue, a slow buildup to an emotional climax. You can be oh so vulnerable and emotional, yet still come across with your best foot forward. I am entirely in touch with and compelled by my own self-knowledge and it stretches to knowing the opposite sex as well.

I have yet to truly read/heard any decent advice by a guy to other guys. If anything I will take a female’s belief system and fundamental feminist ideals over anything a man is going to spew in the way of treatment of women.

I myself have always been different. I don’t cater to nor care about how other guys see me. I don’t care nor desire to care to measure up to some misguided ‘typical male’ macho sexist egotistical notion of seeing women as objects and having a predictable self defeating primary goal in life to have sex. The double standards in this and everything else in society are magnified because everyone seems to accept and glamorize it when guys womanize, when they have no morals, when they mistreat and degrade women. When they exert their so called male dominance and bring women down just to stroke their own egos and cover up their own insecurities and inadequacies.

This is speaking to other guys here- Stop blaming women for your troubles, take responsibility! You are at fault, not any of the women who have rejected you. If you think about all the asenine, selfish, misguided, barren of empathy and emotion, words and actions you used with the women you were trying oh so hard to impress… tthen you might come to the realization that YOU would reject yourself too. Stop making the same mistakes over and over and own up to things. It is all inside of you.

Just watch tv and you will always find a program where you see women attacked, made fun of, objectified, portrayed in a negative light. But what do guys get? As long as they come across as the typical fool, they appear ‘cool’ to other guys and even to some women. You find that on tv, on the net, in the real world, everywhere.

If you don’t have it inside of you already to respect, appreciate, and hold women as equals, and as the amazing intellectual, emotional, passionate,desirable, talented beings they are, then no book and no teacher is going to help you change into a man who does.

I love women period. I love them for everything they have inside of them. Yes I can appreciate the physical, but strangely enough I am always more attrcated to women on an emotional level. The little things about them that other guys are so clueless about can never see or pick up, but I do. Because they are visually oriented, and I ‘m not. In fact most of my feelings and emotions are very similar to that of females’. I need there to be that emotional connection or I can’t even get to the physical part. I have always been different and guys have treated me like crap, questioned my sexuality, and attacked me for similar things they attack women for.

I identify, relate, and wholeheartedly hold a ton of empathy for women’s plight in society. The same issues that continue to plague them because of a male dominated society that degrades, objectifies, attacks, holds back, and trivializes female importance. I for one am not part of those problems. I make it my business to be part of the solution. And I am very proud to call myself a male feminist. And I I try to spread my beliefs around to as many as possible to get others to truly feel what they couldn’t conceive of before.

It’s not just about getting yourself a better facade/mask/game so women will like you. It’s about showing them that you get it. Through your actions. And that you are authentic, genuine, and that your emotions overshadow the same boring predictable selfish egotistical controlling male pretzel logic that makes most guys appear as the jackasses they trul;y are within a few minutes of spending time with a woman. It doesn’t take a female long to read you. And I’m the same way, I am led by my feelings, and go with them on everything. I read people and situations extremely well and possess more than enough empathy to truly understand/feel what females do. That’s why I never needed to read any books, or use any gimmicks to help me.

I have the rarest personality type in the world btw, which is INFJ and that is why I am this way for the most part. If you are into jung psychology, read about that personality type and you will see the natural insight it gives me into women and that I am actualyl very close to clairvoyant on many levels.

I just ammyself, and if they don’t like me, too bad. But most women appreciate me as a person and if it goes further, cool. I make them live up to my standards just as they do to me. I am picky and do not settle for trapppings of good looks as I said before. I am more than capable of playing my male role, but at the same time I never get in the way of them playing an equally as meaningful female role and the important part is that the less you try to control them and every situation, the better things will be. It is unhealthy if either person is controlling, dominating, degrading, abusive, etc.

And guess what- all the same loser guys that are clueless with women, they won’t ever learn. It isn’t inside of them to be any different, and sometimes girls make the wrong decisions and end up with those same losers. You can’t argue with the essence of emotional attraction and that is why no matter what a woman says on a logical level about what she wants, or about not being happy with a guy she is with for obvious reasons, the emotional part says otherwise.

The more guys embrace their femininity, their emotions, and stop caring about how other guys or society views them, the better they will get with finding the right woman. And my ultimate goal has always been fall in love with one girl. A monogomous relationship. I don’t watch nor need porn, ever. It portrays women as objects as Lisa said. And why would I want to watch a fake display of dirty physically oriented sex. I want my sex to be real, engulfed in true love, passionate, and emotional.

I don’t fantasize about sex. I fantasize about an emotional connection with a girl who can give me evertyhing that will complete me and share her love. While I do the same for her. I have no desire to sleep with anyone until I am in love. I don’t care how I am viewed, I know what I want, what’s right for me, and generally what women want and what’s right for them. And I feel just like they do on so many things. It gives me that inside advantage and it really could help other guys if they just embraced what’s inside , instead of trying so hard to fight their so called vulnerabilities with their misguided clueless male trappings.

Vulnerability, emotions, feeling, love, passion, energy, desire, sincerity, loyalty… are just some of what fills my heart and what I am looking for in the heart of the right girl for me.

-sean-

lol.

This is pretty much on the money. The time is right for this wisdom. Men have been harbouring anger for some time, and this has led to some pretty sick stuff in our world today – shootings, paedophilia, reliance on porn for kicks.

A real man is not opposed to seeing women have more of a say in society – it is, of course, gentlemanly to be fair to everyone of both sexes.

But the ‘feminist’ movement has opened the doors for all kinds of laws, rules and regulations to feed vote-hungry politicians, leaving us with pretty thin ice for the male of today, ambitious or not.

You’re correct, Stephen: we don’t need to bring women down again to level the playing field. Rather, we need to level the playing the field and encourage men to enter it again.

Something needs to be done. Articles such as these help by making people more aware. I’ll be reading the follow-ups. Thanks for sharing.

Onward.

To freedom,

Scotty Stevens