Poor guy. Dude, websites track IP addresses – which means I can blatantly see that you posted as “Elaine”. Nice one. Next time, run down to the internet cafe and post as “Samantha” under a different IP. That is, if you can pull yourself away from your beloved video games & porn.

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Stop reading books (and blogs for that matter) and get out into the world for some actual experience man, and then…post THAT. Let’s hear some actual experience rather than more of these breezy comments:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/CMon-Man/156086759101

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And yes it is genetically beat into you to believe that women are so “different” or difficult to get, read, or understand. Well never been that way for me. I have a harder time relating to -, understanding, and feeling any connection with my own gender than I have ever had with women. I fully get them close to 100% I’m not perfect, nobody is.

But I will put my natural insight into them up againts any other guys out there. Even those who have far more sexual experience. because I don’t care about sex, I care about building a long lasting monogamous relationship built on love with a girl.

And I definitely know what they want, need, and how to give it to them. It’s just a question of bypassing alot of the crap from the negative effects many women have received (and expect) from the majority of other guys out there. Causing many women to continue to think that we are all the same. Just as you are programmed to think all women are the same and should be somehow seen as this puzzle that can’t be solved. Or that some scientifical repetitive logical formula will work to “seduce” everyone of them.

All mere myths. And fallacies that many guys will sadly be forced to live loneliness with. And what you choose to believe from a male controlled society that will continue to try and dominate, force their views/will on, hold back, objectify, and degrade every woman that gets in their way of success or ego.

And I detect in the tone of that short passage that you really don’t want to hold women as ‘equals’. So why profess to be supporting women’s rights and feminism. Take it from a real feminist, your so called positive view and honorable aspirations with women seem as hollow and disingenuous asmost guys’.

And you better believe that the right girl will complete me emotionally, spiritually, physically, every conceivable way. Maybe you don’t get it because you don’t have a grasp on your (or females’) true feelings and emotions. Instead you try to “think” your way into or out of everything. And the more you get locked into your typical male trappings, the further you will get from truly understanding just how similar guys and girls really are (on the inside).

Thanks for your comments man. Are you actually IN a relationship? I have a sneaky suspicion that what we’re hearing from you here is a guy with too many ideas and not enough experiences. Also, beware of holding women up too high bro – they are equals, but very different from men – AND they can’t complete you emotionally, or in any way frankly. From your posts, I’m not sure you really get that.

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How many women out there once they put a guy in the so called friend zone ever really come back from there to see that same guy as a romantic interest. I mean a viable lasting one. Not too many. This is true female psychology to know that once you are put in that friend zone (compartmentalized), it burns that impression and image of you into their hearts, minds, souls, etc. You can be the nicest, most thoughtful, caring guy, show her so much onso many levels. But it is not going to change things. In most cases, it won’t. There are some cases and girls where it will. But most, I vote for the forever friend tag being branded on your forehead. It’s just the way it goes. You can seek friendship with a girl, but also show her that sexual interest that will at least get her seeing you in that way as a possibility. Even sending her mixed messages is fine. because honestly the more mysterious, intriguing, less predictable, different, you truly are… The more sexy you will come across to most girls.

I believe you must be everything to her anyway. And vice versa. Contrary to how most visually/physically/logically oriented males think. Yes they think too much, that is the problem. Not enough feeling. They think that it’s all or nothing. They must get her in bed and will sell their soul to do so. But

I believe she should be everything to you. Spiritually, emotionally, physically, etc. She should be everything that you love in every sense. From the inside on out. I myself can only be attracted to a girl physically once I am attrcated emotionally. Yes I may have the typical male urges, but I never give them much power in my world. There are a million pretty faces, and not anywhere near as much beauty on the inside of the ones you meet. And my attrcation to females is so much stronger emotionally that it can ever be on such superficial misguided levels that most males make an artform.

Girls are so special, once you truly see them for what is amazing below the surface! So many things inside of them that are irresistable nuances most guys freely pass up or are blind to in their so called quests for the physical gratification that takes them absolutely nowhere. All that gratification does is lead to the need for more and this self-defeating lonely cycle never gets guys anywhere.

Back to the whole ‘stop objectifying’ rule. Stop it. Because as soon as you do it, you pretty much kill your chances at a strong lasting monogamous relationship. And no matter what you become, it will never satisfy what you truly feel inside and certainly not what she experiences in her scope of existence.

The second issue is that I am not into the highschool games that occurr when you rely on a social circle and all the girls try to date one guy and all the guys try to date a couple of the girls. To be quite honest there are no physically attractive women in my social circle because they are too busy dating.

Finally, there has only been one instance of a girl in a social circle that showed interest in me.

Now, I am commenting on this as after several “dates” with the same girl, I realized with the help of a friend that she wanted to just be friends; however, it was in fact a costly friendship. Hence, I am open to trying something new; however, the do what you enjoy and you will meet someone has happened for me except the girl found like 100x other guys and I was not one of the top 10.