Archive for February, 2009

Men’s Lifestyle Lesson #1 – The 5 Skills

Since I am currently coaching some really great guys on the art of creating a naturally attractive lifestyle and social circle which naturally attracts women, these concepts are front and center in my mind.

I recently did a survey of the 50 couples I know that are actively in relationship. That’s right – 50 couples. In fact, if you wanted to, you could try this little experiment too. What you do is ask them how they met, and figure out if it was via social circle/lifestyle, cold approach or online dating.

Well, I did such an experiment and here’s what I found:

Some Dude Named Hydro…

Barry asked “Hydro” – a regular on his show – to write up this week’s article. What follows are his chemical-filtered Valentine’s Day ramblings. Also, since all of Barry’s “regulars” are cool enough never to hide behind weird internet personalities, I’ve google’d “Hydro PUA” and found this pic as the first image result – nice….

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Hello my name is Hydro, barry has asked me to do a article for nash and since your a cool guy man i though i would talk about me and my gf s valentimes day.

Web 2.0 Dating Advice – 1 Good Facebook Tip

Facebook is clearly designed as a way to interact with others online. It’s where you interact with your social circle via the web. That much is clear & simple.

The one thing that a lot of people don’t “get” yet about FB, is its viral effect. The whole “Web 2.0″ movement is a viral design. We can use that to our advantage then when consciously growing our social circle.

(Your social circle either grows consciously, or by accident by the way…)

Barry & Stefan – Fader Interviews Someone For A Job At Lovesystems…

I can’t reveal how I stumbled on this transcript of Fader interviewing someone who wants to be an instructor for the same company. Remember, this is REAL! There is no way I would make something like this up. No way. Not me:

Fader: Welcome to Lovesystems? As you might already know, we are the pinnacle of home improvement?

Interviewee: Yes, of course, I’ve heard of you and I’m very interested in being part of the team.

Fader: Being part of the team, is the pinnacle of pickup?

Natural Attraction Coaching Sessions Is LIVE

I’ve just opened the doors for my new natural lifestyle, social circle and personal style training program:

“The Natural Attraction Coaching Sessions”

Want to get good at the “90+% Game”? Then you need to register for this 4-part teleseminar course right here:

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The 90+% Game – that’s where the women truly are my man.

If 90+% of all dates and relationships happen as a result from an intelligent, vibrant social circle and lifestyle, doesn’t is stand to reason then that you should focus a little (or even a lot) on developing that?

EVERY healthy relationship I know of (mine included) happened via ones lifestyle and social circle.

Ever wonder why pick-up artists cannot seem to keep a girlfriend to save their arse? Well, here’s your reason…

Flirting Podcast Is Live

The latest installment in the “2009 – The Year” podcast series is live.

In retrospect, I wish I had come up with a better name for this! What I am doing is this -

Each month I am focusing on a specific social skill I feel is important in the dating game. The idea here is to provide some strong, clear guidance on these very critical ones so that 2009 can be “the year” you create the dating and social life you want.

This week I talk about the most important skill:

Flirting

The 90%+ Game

Here’s the point I’ve been wanting to make for some years now…and before you jump to any sort of conclusion, read this whole post.

Lifestyle & Social Circle is the REAL “game” friend.

Pick-up is fun, useful, and a great way to practice socializing, BUT not a good way AT ALL to meet healthy, attractive, interesting women.

Barry & Stefan: 10 Ways To Be Funny

So you want to be the top dog on how to be funny huh?

Well it doesn’t come easy, if you really insist on wanting to know, here is my top 10 ways you can learn to be funny:

1) Grow up around people who are funny: Yeah well, if you’ve hit age 20, chances are it’s too late for you. The only real way to fix this is to create a time machine, go back and tell your younger self not to hang around unfunny douche bags.

Cocky Funny – How It DESTROYS Your Chances With Women (by Cameron Teone)

If you are on the Internet seeking dating advice, chances are good that you have come across a concept called cocky/funny. About 6 years ago, a gentleman started writing countless articles and newsletters promoting the concept of cocky/funny.

Like you, I was excited about it. It was a novel concept that seemed interesting and seemed to get a reaction out of people. It also seemed to piss off quite a few women at the same time. Over the years, I ran into a lot of guys whose chances with women were being destroyed by cocky/funny as it was being taught.

Female Psychology 101 – Female Attraction

Female attraction is different than male attraction. The elements that trigger attraction in a woman are different than they are for a man. The ultimate feeling of attraction is likely the same, but what creates it are different in men and women.

So, when we are talking about female psychology, we need to understand how it is very different than male psychology – and in particular, how this relates to meeting women and dating.

A study of psychology will only help us if it turns into the “practical”…as that’s how us guys work.

Barry Kirkey’s Thoughts on Orthodox Jews (his new neighbors)

As you might have recently heard, Barry has moved into a new place. The owners are Orthodox Jewish – you know, the ones with the black capes, hats and beards.

There seems to be a lot of talk about this on both the show, and the forum, so I decided to have us all get on the same page with some solid facts about Orthodox Judaism – also known as black cape deluxe-ism. Oh! I also added some color to add some pizazz!