Comments on: Podcast – Approaching Women & Making 2009 “The Year”

By: Mr. Smith

Mr. Smith — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 05:52:26 +0000

One thing I’ve noticed is that girls that are the most “available” are all ways the most desperate or at least the one lowest in the social ladder and most often than not in the looks department so to speak. So I when ahead and thought to myself “hey, if the hot ones are the ones that are least available because of the fact that they have guys throwing themselves at their feet 24/7 than what if I act as if I don’t give a rat’s but about them, that way they will think twice and say…”hmm, why isn’t he trying t0 hit on me, aren’t i sexy enough for him?” now, what i wanted to ask you is what do you think about this and when in your opinion is it the proper time to go in for the kill to to speak?

By: Xi

Xi — Sun, 31 May 2009 21:00:59 +0000

man since I completed listening to your podcast (primarily about lifestyle & the social juices) I started approaching f*ing hot girls at the gym; most of the time making fun of what they are doing, giving advice, then excuse myself. 3 of them manage to find me few minutes later & offer their phone number (after a couple of minute conversation).

the complete secret:
know that you will regret only what you don’t do; there’s nothing more than hot woman out there, they want to be approached & have fun; stay polite, funny & mostly don’t get hard (don’t be aiming to get her in your bed in any direct way).

By: Stephen Nash

Stephen Nash — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 16:26:45 +0000

That sounds great actually. If she responds, and seems open, try to get her to laugh by poking fun at yourself first once you engage her. Only after that is it smart to tease her. In a situation like this where women feel insecure (usually) and on display, we want to poke fun at ourselves first. That’s a rule I teach all guys who work with me…btw.

By: Mr.Smith

Mr.Smith — Sat, 14 Feb 2009 00:45:49 +0000

I totally see what you’re saying man and you know what come too think about it when I was younger I remember feeling a certain sorriness for girls which I did not like that approached me. Well, maybe not sorriness but more of a self talk that went like this. (Ahh crap, what do I tell her, I mean I don’t want to hurt her feelings)… and I would just leave the young lady “hanging on a limb”.

Right, maybe I can pull of an “hey, can I borrow those weights when your done with them?… Oh by the way, what type of exercise are you doing there?”

I don’t know I think that sounds a little more in context and not totally obvious. What do you think?

By: Stephen Nash

Stephen Nash — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 16:57:57 +0000

Well, you could approach her (good). Or, you could wait until she’s a bit less on display and approach her (better) – that way, she won’t feel a lot of “pressure”, see what I mean? Women have certain autopilot responses in situations like this, and these responses are triggered by social pressure. So, if she’s out in the open, she is WAY more likely to revert to those than if not.

See what I mean?

Oh, and I would go in directly. Gym approaches are very obvious, so why not simply use that to your advantage (says I).

By: Mr.Smith

Mr.Smith — Tue, 10 Feb 2009 04:46:26 +0000

I have a question. The other day I was at the gym (ballys) and there was this incredibly attractive woman exorcizing just a few feet away from me (she was doing some stretching and what not) now, mind you… almost every guy in viewable distance was checking her out. What could I have done in this situation? I mean The situation is totally random by default, what in the world can I say to this woman that will stop her from doing exorcize and intrigue her and strike up a conversation with me?