Podcast – Approaching Women & Making 2009 “The Year”
Are you a listener on my podcast? If not, this is the PERFECT time to become one.
Last week I outlined the 12-steps to dating mastery for 2009. Month by month, I plan to discuss each of these 12-steps thru my podcast.
Lesson 1 is all about approaching women and yesterday I recorded the first part, which is all about the direct approach.
I demo what to say, how to say it, and provide clear and simple body language/tonality tips. You’ll get everything you need to start meeting women TODAY.
Here’s where to listen in:
The How To Get A Girlfriend Podcast
From time-to-time this year I plan to use clips from “The Natural Art of the Pick-Up” to support these lessons.
“The Natural Art of the Pick-Up” is a completely natural and smooth system for meeting and attracting women.
And if you’re looking to make 2009 “the year” for dating success, then I urge you to just take a looksie…right here:
The Natural Art of the Pick-Up
Every day is a turning point, if you decide that it is. But, in order to get around the bend (so to speak), you’re gonna need some help (as I did, and anyone else who actually made real strides in this “game”).
That’s why I am doing these podcasts, AND why I’m encouraging you to get “The Natural Art of the Pick-Up”.
The combo of both, might just be the difference from making this year “the year” you see some lasting, powerful change in your dating and social lives dude.
For the guys who DO the direct approach as I outline it in the podcast (or any other way for that matter) – feel free to post your comments/experiences/feedback etc here as it will be interesting to hear how this goes for you.
That’s it man, have an awesome day -
Stephen
About the Author: Stephen Nash is the author of "How to Get a Girlfriend" and was featured in Neil Strauss book "The Game" as Playboy. He is not a PUA, loves women, his fiancee, dog and even the cat. He suggests you stop reading and start talking...to women. Experience is your best dating coach.
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Mr.Smith | Feb 9, 2009 | Reply
I have a question. The other day I was at the gym (ballys) and there was this incredibly attractive woman exorcizing just a few feet away from me (she was doing some stretching and what not) now, mind you… almost every guy in viewable distance was checking her out. What could I have done in this situation? I mean The situation is totally random by default, what in the world can I say to this woman that will stop her from doing exorcize and intrigue her and strike up a conversation with me?
Stephen Nash | Feb 11, 2009 | Reply
Well, you could approach her (good). Or, you could wait until she’s a bit less on display and approach her (better) – that way, she won’t feel a lot of “pressure”, see what I mean? Women have certain autopilot responses in situations like this, and these responses are triggered by social pressure. So, if she’s out in the open, she is WAY more likely to revert to those than if not.
See what I mean?
Oh, and I would go in directly. Gym approaches are very obvious, so why not simply use that to your advantage (says I).
Mr.Smith | Feb 13, 2009 | Reply
I totally see what you’re saying man and you know what come too think about it when I was younger I remember feeling a certain sorriness for girls which I did not like that approached me. Well, maybe not sorriness but more of a self talk that went like this. (Ahh crap, what do I tell her, I mean I don’t want to hurt her feelings)… and I would just leave the young lady “hanging on a limb”.
Right, maybe I can pull of an “hey, can I borrow those weights when your done with them?… Oh by the way, what type of exercise are you doing there?”
I don’t know I think that sounds a little more in context and not totally obvious. What do you think?
Stephen Nash | Feb 18, 2009 | Reply
That sounds great actually. If she responds, and seems open, try to get her to laugh by poking fun at yourself first once you engage her. Only after that is it smart to tease her. In a situation like this where women feel insecure (usually) and on display, we want to poke fun at ourselves first. That’s a rule I teach all guys who work with me…btw.
S.
Xi | May 31, 2009 | Reply
man since I completed listening to your podcast (primarily about lifestyle & the social juices) I started approaching f*ing hot girls at the gym; most of the time making fun of what they are doing, giving advice, then excuse myself. 3 of them manage to find me few minutes later & offer their phone number (after a couple of minute conversation).
the complete secret:
know that you will regret only what you don’t do; there’s nothing more than hot woman out there, they want to be approached & have fun; stay polite, funny & mostly don’t get hard (don’t be aiming to get her in your bed in any direct way).
Mr. Smith | Jun 5, 2009 | Reply
One thing I’ve noticed is that girls that are the most “available” are all ways the most desperate or at least the one lowest in the social ladder and most often than not in the looks department so to speak. So I when ahead and thought to myself “hey, if the hot ones are the ones that are least available because of the fact that they have guys throwing themselves at their feet 24/7 than what if I act as if I don’t give a rat’s but about them, that way they will think twice and say…”hmm, why isn’t he trying t0 hit on me, aren’t i sexy enough for him?” now, what i wanted to ask you is what do you think about this and when in your opinion is it the proper time to go in for the kill to to speak?