Archive for December, 2008

Effective New Year’s Resolutions (made your list yet?)

Have you scripted your New Year’s Resolutions yet??

Do you even do that?

For many years, I “resolved” to get better with women in the coming year – maybe that’s on your list for ’09.

Me in “Men’s Health” Magazine + My Bowl Picks

I’ve started noticing traffic coming to my site via the Men’s Health site, and realized that the interview I gave them months ago must now be up…and it is, here:

Stefan & Barry Go “Marketing”

I have finally immersed myself into the dating community and bought a few of the most popular programs out there. Here are my reviews:

Does Santa Have A Lover In Russia??

My girlfriend works at a bar in Brooklyn, and her boss is Russian. Apparently, Santa has a lover in Russia, and my girlfriend is being asked to dress like “her” on Christmas day.

Russians – can you confirm please?

Stefan’s Interview With Neil Strauss

Stefan:

Thanks for being here today Neil, I heard you had a difficult flight. How many are apples too?

Neil:

I made it to the mass on Thursday but it was too crowded for the priest. Thanks.

“Fat Girl” Proof Your Online Dating

This hysterical vid hysterically describes the “problem” (yep, it has pics) and then gives you a clean way to avoid this altogether.

Time to play: Whose PUA Shoes are those?!

The game is simple: I show you a shoe, you guess who wears them. The winner gets a secret prize! Are you ready to begin?

Podcast NOW: Dave M Interview…A System For Online Dating

If I told you that there was a club where the women were hot, single, looking to meet guys, and MIGHT even approach you if you know what you’re doing – would you go?

Of Course you would.

That’s exactly what is happening this very second on a variety of great online dating sites (which we list on the podcast).

Video Testimonial PLUS a “Gentle” Reminder ;-)

First – the vid. Here’s a client of mine from the weekend: And, here’s what he wrote to me the next day: Stephen, I got a lot out of the time we spent yesterday. I’m excited about continuing this momentum and making a lot of positive changes in my life. In fact, I went out [...]

The Next Great Catch Word…”Placating”

My new favorite word is “placating”. To me, it says it all…

I was working with a client this weekend, and he used it to describe himself.

Now, being a teacher here, I am always seeking a word (or words) that help me get my message across – and now, I’ve got a really good one.

Barry & Stefan: This Just In!

Famed pick up artist David DeAngelo was selected to play Frodo Baggins in the upcoming remake of Lord of the Rings. He will begin his training by listening to 70 hours of Michael Bolton music straight, then shoving boysenberry scented candles in his ears, nose and anus.

When asked about this bizarre technique, DeAngelo said, “If you say to a woman ‘I really like you’, it won’t be as effective as saying to them ‘You really like me’ in a teasing way. Do you understand?”

I’d Love Your Feedback on This…

In 2009, I will be hosting FREE Saturday afternoon monthly forums in NYC, and I’d love some feedback from you on what you’d like me to cover, any special guests you’d like to meet, or any additional crazy ideas that I probably haven’t thought of.