The Natural Art of the Pick-up

The “Get Laid For Life” Contest!

Did you watch the whole thing?

So, for your convenience, here are the 11 Rules/Tenets of the “Natural” & I need a 12th.

1) No Sarging – I do what I want, and meet women on the way;

2) I am open to trying and exploring new and interesting things always leaning into my “comfort zone”;

3) If I see a woman I want to meet, I meet her;

4) I am the “Go 2 Guy” of my social circle, always knowing what’s “going on” in the community and leading my social circle into new & fascinating experiences;

5) The mantra of my social circle – “Invite Someone That No One Else Knows”;

6) I am always leading/screening as I have standards for whom I will date and who gets “in” my social circle;

7) I never ask questions of a woman until she asks them of me FIRST;

8) A First date – is always into my world…;

9) I never end a date with a kiss. If I want to kiss a woman, I structure a time for the middle of the date. Rules like this are made to be broken;

10) I am always a gentleman, and I treat people with respect (and expect my friends & women to do so too);

11) I am never average, I am never ordinary.

Come up with your *best* suggestions for #12, and fill them in below in the comments section for this post, OK?

To the winner?

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I’ll make my decision on Monday, July 7th.

OK – let her rip man. Give me the 12th Rule!

Sn.

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About the Author: Stephen Nash is the founder of Cutting Edge Image Consulting. He is an Original Pick-up Artist and a well documented expert. Stephen has worked with thousands of clients, and is the author of the best-selling How To Get a Girlfriend.

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  1. I AM THE PRISE

  2. My entry:

    “I am poised. I generate my own confidence and security, and I have enough inner strength to give reassurance to others. I effectively handle the challenges and uncertainties that come with my full life.”

  3. Suggestions for #12

    I am a giver of value.

    I never get rejected, I only find out if a woman has good or bad taste.

    I’m good enough; I’m strong enough; and gosh darn it, I like myself!

    Being comfortable with the person I am I do not need or seek external validation.

    Not all women will like me; the ones who don’t are to be pitied.

    The first 3 are plagiarized but very sound.

  4. 12.) I guide my thoughts and actions toward a singular overarching purpose.

  5. 12) I am easy-going; I get my plans into motion with my social group and/or woman and never stress about the details. I change what needs to be changed, and accept what I can’t change.

  6. Number 12 ———— “This is my world; this is my life; It is my job to live and love myself!

  7. 12) Women love me everywhere I go.

  8. 12) It doesn’t fucking matter – There are almost 3.5 billion women on the planet, and the outcome of a single interaction has negligible effect on the greater scheme of things.

  9. 12: to get fun man you forget the most important thing in the world dont forget this

  10. Emotional Stability and leadership (confidence) are the best gifts that a man can give to himself and a woman.

  11. I am nice but I am also power.

  12. I wanted to make a post like a man should this is my first post in the pickup community and i would like to add a few words about sexy body language. i happen to be exceptionally good looking so it makes it a bit easier on me ive always had a sexy body and girls love it i get approached almost every single day. even if you are not the sexiest guy out htere and ive taught this to a few guys you can still be sexy. when your with a girl think about what you do when your having sex with her now think would you be smooth and debonair or would you be bumbling heres a hint choose smooth. now i want you to emulate that body language and smoothness out there and even if it seems a bit weird at first just do it you will notice girls picking up on the the smooth and sex aromating body language and melt for it. She will be wet already if you have done this correctly.

  13. my 12th when all of my game is on just do it.

  14. I follow my desire.
    and this should be read in two ways;
    first, the reason for my interactions with women is my desire; for example, i go up to a girl because there’s something about her and not because i have to open 4 sets a day.
    second, i take my desire seriously; this one is basically not compromising with yourself – if there is something about one girl, i’m gonna act on it.

  15. I am not afraid – I know exactly what i want and will not be put off, by things outside myself, in achieving that.

  16. Rule #12. I am comfortable being the centre of attention but I’m also comfortable letting the spotlight shine on somebody else.

  17. 12) Although I have a general plan of action, I am always present, spontaneous, and living in the moment because life is now. Thus, I am not outcome-oriented, but rather I live life for the experience.

  18. In life you are presented with a few opportunities that you definitely know you want to do, a few more that you definitely know you don’t want to do, and a vast majority that leave you torn in some way. The rule that I’ve implemented in my own life that has created the greatest positive change is the following:

    #12 – When torn between saying yes or no to an opportunity, say yes.

    The purpose of this rule is to get you to overcome stasis and DO something rather than debate the merits of whether or not you should do it. It is a rule that is useful not only in dating but in every facet of life. Granted, it has lead me down a lot of dead-ends, but it has also opened up avenues of fun and adventure I never would have had if I had let my laziness, inhibitions, or inertia be my guide.

    (It should go without saying that this doesn’t mean you should indulge in things that are dangerous or reckless to you personally, financially, or emotionally.)

  19. I am the center of my reality.

  20. #12 I am the prize and I deserve the best the world has to offer.

  21. My entry: I have a gift for bringing joy and happiness into people’s lives and I have a responsibility to share that gift with everyone.

  22. 12) Start again from #1

  23. rule #12 – “I am not selfish and I like to please women” ;)

  24. ps: why only 12, theres some pretty good ones already, make them 112 :)

  25. #12 — Hold no agendas. In whatever I do and wherever I go, I live and enjoy each moment as it comes and to the best of my abilities without being concerned or attached to a specific outcome.

  26. having confidence is everything to get girls

  27. Everyone in this world has something good within them to offer me, it is my mission to learn how to bring those great parts of someone I meet out.

    No-one is a jerk or a bitch, learn to find a glimpse of greatness in everyone.

  28. No-one is a jerk or a bitch, learn to find a glimpse of greatness in everyone.

  29. One more attempt–I learned this from painful experience, and from your course last month!

    “I am poised, and have a relaxed confidence. I have an amazing ability to not get rattled by the events and setbacks that come up in life.”

  30. Thanks guys! These are awesome…

    I really like the giver of value ones, as well as Kevin’s about being the center of attention. These all imply a comfort in giving attention, and positive emotions, to others. Clearly, that is a GOOD thing.

    I’ll make a separate post on this, but the winner is AndyC about “when in doubt, always say ‘yes’”. It’s simple, clear, and fits in with the overarching themes of treating life as an exploration, learning leadership and flexibility, and in being spontaneous!

    Thanks a ton everyone. Look for a separate post from me on this!

    Sn.

  31. 12) I stay my course by accepting all of life’s energies, and using all of them to my great advantage.

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