I wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your e-book. I have bought so many of the products out there by pickup gurus (or ladies’ men, or whatever they wish to be called), but I especially appreciate yours. I have benefited tremendously from the material that is out there, but it required much filtering and tireless analysis on my part. You see, my circumstance is different from that of many of the guys out there. I’ve been married for over 10 years. My purpose in studying the seduction community differs from that of most guys. One of the reasons I started looking into the community was to learn how to turn up the attraction with my wife and learn how to “turn it off” with other women (at least somewhat, as some of it can’t be turned off; it’s just who you are). I have always had some success with women, but I was never masterful. I’m naturally playful and banter and connect quite well once I’m comfortable with a woman, but I never really understood when I was doing something right and when I was doing something wrong. Now, I totally get it. And I’ve taught it to several of my friends, who have come to fix their marriages as a result.

What is different about your book is that it is not focused on getting women to sleep with you, but rather on how to be naturally attractive to women. This is just as important for married men, if not more so, and yet, it is so often neglected by them. One friend I was explaining this to actually said, “Why are you telling me this stuff now; I’m already married.” Some men just don’t get it, that it’s just as important for married men to be attractive (in my opinion, much more so—because it can prevent broken homes). As for me, my wife adores me more today than even in our honeymoon phase. My best friend’s wife has fallen back in love with him after having had such negative feelings towards him that she picked up and left him with the kids. She openly admits that it’s because of the manliness he developed after I taught him this stuff. Another friend of mine has found that spark once again that he used to have with his wife, after I had explained to him some concepts of autonomy and rapport (I refer to them as dominance and intimacy).

I wouldn’t recommend to most guys most of the material that’s out there, because it’s too focused on pickup. Your book is different. It is just as useful for a man trying to find a wife and even a man that has been married for over 10 years. And so, that is my only real objection to your book: its title, “How to Get a Girlfriend.” Your book is about much more than just how to get a girlfriend, but the title would discourage some men from reading it, because getting a girlfriend is not their goal. I really wish you would change the title of your book, to something like, “How to Be Naturally Attractive to Women,” “How to Make a Woman Fall in Love with You,” “How to Be a Ladies’ Man,” “The Keys to Natural Attraction,” “How to Be Successful with Women,” or the like. I would feel more comfortable recommending the book to any of my married or getting-married friends if it had a different title.

Your friend,

Emerald.