Comments on: Engage: In-Field Report and Commentary http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2007/04/05/engage-in-field-report-commentary/ NYC Dating Coach Stephen Nash's Blog Sun, 13 May 2012 18:43:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: johnny http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2007/04/05/engage-in-field-report-commentary/#comment-454 johnny Sun, 29 Apr 2007 22:56:43 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/2007/04/05/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-mailbag/#comment-454 Stephen, What is the best way to vibe with a group after opening and how do you let the group know you're interested in your target? My biggest sticking point is what the hell do I do after opening a group without coming off as an entertainer! Stephen,
What is the best way to vibe with a group after opening and how do you let the group know you’re interested in your target?

My biggest sticking point is what the hell do I do after opening a group without coming off as an entertainer!

]]> By: Stephen Nash http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2007/04/05/engage-in-field-report-commentary/#comment-358 Stephen Nash Mon, 09 Apr 2007 15:40:29 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/2007/04/05/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-mailbag/#comment-358 The basic rule of thumb with voicemail is to leave two messages. The first should hopefully utilize call-back humor (so, remember what you talked to her about, and then hopefully insert a remark early in the message to bring back something humorous from the interaction), and then simply give your number and tell her to get back to you. I usually don't advise that guys recite plans that they want to make with the girl in a voicemail - but you might mention that there is a great party coming up on Saturday, and you wanted to give her the details etc. In a second message - be brief, and simply say that you had left a message and hadn't heard back - so you wanted to try one last time to reach her. Leave her your number again, and then drop it. If you call her a lot without leaving a message she will see your number on her call list in her cell. This will definitely CREEP her out. If you call her and don't get her - be sure to leave a message. I know guys who have tried every trick in the book to get her to call back. Basically, if you have to work OT to get her to return your call, she doesn't feel the chemistry and interest that you feel - and her not returning your call is a way of telling you that. My advice then? Move on. SN. The basic rule of thumb with voicemail is to leave two messages. The first should hopefully utilize call-back humor (so, remember what you talked to her about, and then hopefully insert a remark early in the message to bring back something humorous from the interaction), and then simply give your number and tell her to get back to you. I usually don’t advise that guys recite plans that they want to make with the girl in a voicemail – but you might mention that there is a great party coming up on Saturday, and you wanted to give her the details etc.

In a second message – be brief, and simply say that you had left a message and hadn’t heard back – so you wanted to try one last time to reach her. Leave her your number again, and then drop it.

If you call her a lot without leaving a message she will see your number on her call list in her cell. This will definitely CREEP her out. If you call her and don’t get her – be sure to leave a message.

I know guys who have tried every trick in the book to get her to call back. Basically, if you have to work OT to get her to return your call, she doesn’t feel the chemistry and interest that you feel – and her not returning your call is a way of telling you that. My advice then? Move on.

SN.

]]> By: Fernando http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2007/04/05/engage-in-field-report-commentary/#comment-353 Fernando Sun, 08 Apr 2007 19:51:55 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/2007/04/05/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-mailbag/#comment-353 How can I get a girl to notice me? How can I get a girl to notice me?

]]> By: Joe http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2007/04/05/engage-in-field-report-commentary/#comment-341 Joe Fri, 06 Apr 2007 00:36:16 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/2007/04/05/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-mailbag/#comment-341 Stephen, What do you suggest once you get her phone number? I leave voicemails but they don't get returned sometimes. I think voicemail might not be a good thing. Should I hang up and keep calling until I get her on the phone, or should I leave a voicemail and consider it done if she doesn't return my message? Thanks! Stephen,

What do you suggest once you get her phone number? I leave voicemails but they don’t get returned sometimes. I think voicemail might not be a good thing.

Should I hang up and keep calling until I get her on the phone, or should I leave a voicemail and consider it done if she doesn’t return my message? Thanks!

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