How To Gain Real Power – The Art of Screening

I hope you had a awesome New Years celebration! This year is guaranteed to be better than the last.

Have ever felt as if you lacked choice when dating?

Have you ever heard the phrase, “Women are the choosers”?

For most guys, this is true. They are “chosen” by women.

Well, if you are like me, this information makes you a bit nauseous and angry. If it does, that is good. You might be one of the few who is able to reverse this dynamic and find a healthy relationship – one where you choose each other.

The problem is most guys feel desperate, so when a woman comes along willing to spend a little time with him, he jumps at the chance to be with her, even if he is not attracted to her!

Sound familiar? It sure did to us, until we learned the skills and got good at this stuff.

One skill that Mike and I feel is critical to your success with women, is the ability to Screen. Screening is knowing what you want, and then having the skill to see if a person (a woman, in this case) has those qualities.

If you are unable to understand and harness this skill, you will never fully experience the power of choice in dating.

That’s right, you will be chosen.

I hope you get it now that the art of screening is critical. If you do not understand what I am talking about – let that be a code red to you that you need to focus on this area of your life, and get it handled -otherwise -you are destined for the trash heap of heartache and failed relationships.

Am I making myself clear?

Without this skill firmly in place, you will always be subject to the laws of chance and luck; never feeling empowered in owning the ability to pick and choose.

Now that I have sufficiently scared you, are you ready to get this handled?

First of all, let me just get a sense of who you are.

I imagine you are like I used to be. Perhaps a bit shy, lacking confidence, dreaming of having an awesome girlfriend, with a faint sense of purpose, but a greater sense of loneliness and confusion when it comes to dating and women.

Most guys who come to us have some of the above traits in common.

What they also have in common is a deep desire to choose the women in their lives, rather than ‘settling’ for who is available. Sound familiar?

By empowering guys with the ability to Screen, we give you the power of choice.

Also, by knowing what you want and feeling that power of choice, you will naturally be more secure and confident in your interactions.

In order to choose something, first you must know – what do you want?

Read the above statement about ten times. I am serious. If you are clueless about what you really want – you won’t get it!!

Get it??

In particular, what do you want when it comes to dating and women?

If you don’t know, start by asking yourself, why am I reading this? Why am I interested in helping myself with my challenges when it comes to women?

Do I want a girlfriend? Do I want to have a one-night stand? Do I want a date by Friday night?

What is it?

In fact, take out a pen and paper, and write down now, what it is that you want. Be specific and clear.

Sign and date the page – this is an important moment in your life. Too often, the reason we do not get what we want is because we never take the time to be specific about what that is.

Now, think about the kind of woman who would fulfill you, given what you want. You probably have an image of her, and it is great to be clear about how she is physically. More importantly, you must know what personality qualities or characteristics you are looking for.

Again, take out a pen and paper, and spend five minutes writing down what kind of woman it is that you want in your life. Write everything that comes to mind. Be as specific as you want to be – so, if you like pouty lips, write it down! Go for it now, and spend about five minutes doing it.

OK – so, now, you have a clear idea of what kind of romantic or dating situation you are seeking, as well as having a sense of the kind of woman that fits that profile.

Congratulations! You have just taken an action towards being massively successful with women.

You have just done something that 95% of all men will never do. They are leaving their chances up to luck and fate when it comes to women.

Unacceptable in my book.

My “Natural Attraction” Audio Program goes into these exercises in even greater detail.

In fact, each day we guide you through a series of exercises that empower you more and more, giving you a solid and clear plan of action by the end of the 7 days, giving you the ultimate advantage with women, a complete game plan.

So, now that you know what you want, you can focus on being a chooser, rather than ‘settling’.

Most guys who work with us, or who we have met simply through the daily living of our lives, would LOVE to say that they feel the power of choice when it comes to the women.

What most guys tend to feel is a lack of power, accompanied with an attitude of, ‘I will take what I can get’…

Before you can choose, you have to know what you want, right? Screening is merely an extension of that.

In order to do this, it is necessary that you are specific about your standards, and that you refuse to accept anything less than that unless you make a conscious decision to do so because, sometimes, what you write down doesn’t work in the real world – but, there is only one way to find out… you gotta get out there, and talk to women.

In my 7-Day “Natural Attraction” Audio Program we go into detail about the art of screening, describing exactly how to do it, and why it is critical to your success with women…

Imagine feeling the sense of power and choice normally reserved for the rich and famous…

Imagine the looks on your friends’ faces when they see you with smoking hot women. They will be asking you for your secrets!

In fact, why don’t you now take a minute and check out what else this product offers, by clicking on the link for more about the “Natural Attraction” Audio Program.

Also, if you haven’t picked-up my ebook, “How to Get a Girlfriend“, what, again, are you waiting for?

This book only combines the best coverage on dating in printed form today.

So, check it out here, and enjoy the book. It is a pretty fast read – but you might want to go through it a couple of times. This thing is packed with rock-solid, field tested, NO BS information.

Just remember, the power to choose is given to those who are willing to identify what they want, and then are willing to go for it – in real life.

You have to be willing to walk away from people and interactions that don’t measure up to what you want, and what fits into your plan�

Your friend,
Stephen

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