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How To Pass Her Tests

Ever feel like a woman is testing you? For example, say she runs late three times in a row when meeting you. And when I say late, I mean over 10 minutes. If someone arrives to a date, and is less than 10 minutes late, no big deal. If it is more than 10 minutes…I [...]

Skill #5 – Connecting

In truth, if you meet a woman who is really right for you, connecting with her will be no problem. So much of what is espoused in “The Game” are tactics/techniques to unnaturally create something which, under mentally healthy conditions, happens naturally. In many instances however, men are devolved socially and need to understand the [...]

Shopping Guide For The Man Who Hates Shopping

The differences between men and women are rarely more apparent then when it comes to shopping for clothing. Women relish in the experience while guys can’t wait for it to end. The whole process of trying on sizes, picking colors, and walking around the store is detested by most men. Usually they will buy on [...]

Sweep Her Off Her Feet

Most guys watch a cheesy movie, and cringe at the site of red flowers, or a guy proposing down on one knee. I’ll admit, I am one of them. But, in the mind and heart of a woman, this kind of action can melt her causing her to want you more than a box of [...]

Forbes Articles on Marriage

A very controversial article appeared recently at Forbes.com by a man named Michael Noer. It discusses the relationship between working women and marriage. He claims (via statistics) that marriages in which the woman is a professional, and earns over $30K per year, have a higher rate of failure than those who don’t. He doesn’t mince [...]

Skill #4 – Baiting

I sort of discovered this skill by observing naturals in action. I noticed that they never really ask questions (unless they want to) and have what is often referred to as “the gift of gab”. What they do is quite simply TALK – they are telling someone, indirectly, who they are. They don’t, for example, [...]

Some Thoughts on Autonomy

For those of you who don’t know – autonomy is a big part of being attractive to women. This is a life long process of discovery and mastery, one that I cover in great detail in my programs, one-on-one consultations, ebook How To Get A Girlfriend, and Natural Attraction Audio Program. There is a fine [...]

Skill #3 – Storytelling

The third useful social skill from “The Game” that you should study and learn is storytelling. What I want to pass on is how to tell a story in a way that captures and leads the imagination, so that it brings her into your world…which is a nice place to be, right? In the Natural [...]

Yahoo Article on Self-Esteem

This article represents my PRECISE problem with the self-help industry and why most advice out there on dating (for men and women). Any tip, in my experience, which asks you to go into your head and attempt to rewire it with “think new empowering thoughts” without PRACTICAL suggestion and advice as to how to act [...]

How To Be “Nice” AND Cool

I wrote about this some time ago, and I have reposted the article below. But on Sunday I was talking with a friend of mine, and I realized that the phrase “Nice Guys Finish Last” is accurate, but misunderstood. What does it mean to be “nice” in this case? Normally, this is referring to wimpy, [...]

Skill #2 – Flirting

flirt (flűrt) v. flirt·ed, flirt·ing, flirts v.intr. 1. To make playfully romantic or sexual overtures. 2. To deal playfully, triflingly, or superficially with: flirt with danger. 3. To move abruptly or jerkily. Sexual tension is easily the hardest concept to get when working with men who struggle with women, dating and relationships. Most men lack [...]

Skill #1 – Engage

con-text (n. ) 1. The part of a text or statement that surrounds a particular word or passage and determines its meaning. 2. The circumstances in which an event occurs; a setting. A number of years ago, I threw out each and every routine that I used to attract women, and instead focused on going [...]