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Some Answers About “Neediness”

Want to know the REAL reason women are turned-off by men? The answer might surprise you. You’re probably thinking it has to do with your haircut, the pleats in your pants, or your bank account. In fact, it usually has NOTHING to do with these things. I cover this in absurd detail in my ebook [...]

Putting Your Best Foot Forward

Your decision in footwear says a lot about you. On a first date, the first thing women notice is a man’s shoes. Likewise, interviewers are trained to notice if the candidate took the time to polish his shoes. Shoes are important. An art history professor of mine once remarked that an art dealer friend of [...]

Priceless Secrets to Calling Women

I had this GREAT question in my email this morning from a guy questioning how to talk to women on the phone. So many guys get flustered and freaked out when they have to place that first call to a woman. What do you say? What do you talk about? How do you transition into [...]

How To Be “Nice” & Attractive

If you’ve read my ebook, How To Get A Girlfriend then this should be old hat for you, but if not – listen up: There is a difference between being a nice MAN and being a nice CHUMP. We’ve all heard it…and, to a degree, it’s true…”nice guys finish last”. Why is that? I mean, [...]

The Best Way to Get Her Phone Number

You spotted her in the park, you approached her, you have had a great conversation, and now you want to take it to the next level and ask her out. Lots of guys get hung up at that crucial moment when you both have to leave the interaction and head back to your life. They [...]

The Cool Guy’s Guide to Romance

In my ebook “How To Get A Girlfriend” and “Natural Attraction” Audio Program, I talk a lot about owning your own power. When you begin to live a life of purpose and power, the old behaviors you used to think were “needy” now become “attractive”. It’s less about the behavior, and more about YOU – [...]

Great Date Ideas – NYC, Summer ’06

For those of you living in, or coming to, New York – the following link will take you to a listing of the events (FREE) to be held at Central Park’s Summerstage. These make for great date ideas. I’ve looked over the listing, and many of the acts look great. Click here! SN.

Bad, no HORRIBLE, advice online

If you type “How To Get A Girlfriend” into google, the first hit is a page on ehow.com – understandable that a large/blanket site would get the most attention. Nonetheless, this is by far the WORST advice I have ever read in my life on dating and relationships. The link is below: http://www.ehow.com/how_9816_girlfriend.html Please post [...]

Is She Ready To Be Kissed?

I was working with a client over Memorial Day weekend, and he had a common issue that I wanted to address this morning. Here was his question, and do you relate? How Can I Tell if She is Ready To Be Kissed? Each of you has had this question flash through your brains at least [...]

The First Date – A Game Plan

“Let’s meet for coffee”, you say. “Sure, sounds great”, says she. “See you at 8pm”, you say. “Great, see you then”, says she. You hang up feeling elated at having confirmed a date with this gorgeous, fascinating woman. You will take her out for coffee, hoping that the conversation will be terrific. You hope this [...]