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Top 10 Things You Never Knew About Project Hollywood

Style (Neil Strauss) was in New York in September to promote his book “The Game”. He asked me to say a few words about Project Hollywood. Unfortunately, I did not have enough time to get to my Top 10 list (below). But, I did save it and I think it’s pretty funny even if slightly [...]

Interview with me…

My friend Donovan at Attraction Chronicles asked me some weeks ago to do an interview with him for his blog. I gladly obliged. You can find it by clicking here. I really believe that the best I have to offer the PUA community is how to leave the “game” mentality, incorporating many skills learned in [...]

What Attraction REALLY Is…

So many words in our lexicon are tossed around with such a variety of meaning, that it’s a true wonder that we understand each other in this culture. This is PARTICULARLY true in the world of dating. One basic concept that you guys HAVE to grasp is the nature of ATTRACTION. Attraction, in brief, is [...]

25 Points of Great Grooming and Style

1) Notice how long it takes women to get ready, consider how much time they spend on looking good for you. How long do you spend getting ready to go out? 15 min, maybe? Take some extra time and really put some effort into looking good, people will take notice. 2) Pick and choose which [...]

Top 10 MUSTS for Every Bachelor Pad

This is a MUST read for guys looking to attract a girlfriend into their lives. I wrote this some time ago, but it is still totally relevant and HELPFUL… You might be the coolest guy in the world, with great stories, successful career, killer clothes and an awesome social life. However, if your home is [...]

Perfect First Date – Lower East Side, NYC

Last night I was out with some friends, and we were hanging out in my old neighborhood – the lower east side of Manhattan. My how things have changed. It’s such an interesting neighborhood. When I lived there (1994-2000), it underwent a radical change – which continues to this day. I had wanted to explore [...]

Art of Genuine Interest

A client of mine spent some time together on the phone last night, and a very interesting question came up which I thought I would share. This guy’s challenge is CLASSIC, and one that I see everyday in the men that I work with. He has a naturally wry sense of humor, and gets “flirting” [...]

In The Beginning

I’ve been thinking of doing this for some time. I love to write, and have updated the hell out of my book recently – to be released real soon. Anyway, I’ll be posting articles, experiences, comments, etc here as regularly as possible. It’s a way for me to reach out, expand my network, and to [...]