As a dating coach here in NYC, you’d likely think that most of the guys I work with are very different, diverse, experiencing very different challenges vis-a-vis women and dating. If that’s what you think, you’d be wrong…very very wrong.
It’s truly amazing how each of the guys who come to me tend to struggle with the exact same things. And, very regularly, the solutions to what they struggle with are usually the same as well. It has caused me to think that there is a true epidemic of fear and insecurity within our male population, which is usually the root cause of his struggles with women.
I’ve posted a new video over on my “How To Get A Girlfriend” eBook blog which I call “The Ultimate First Impression”. In it, I teach you these 3 concepts (plus tons more, these are just the main ones):
Baiting, High Social Value & The Ultimate First Impression
Go here to watch it now:
By definition, we might be unable to diagnose ourselves. But, if we can generate an interesting discussion on blind spots we have noticed in OTHERS, we might be helped to take a different look at ourselves.
People are either one, or the other. Are you one who initiates, begins, imposes, imagines, creates, acts, DOES?
Or, are you one who responds, reacts, cowers, shifts, pulls back, refrains, regrets or puts off?
BUT, they WILL give you signals, or “indicators” of interest. In this day and age it is somewhat taboo for a woman to overtly indicate her interest to a man. However, there are ‘ways’ she can signal you to approach her. Lets talk about those now…
So, imagine you are on the subway, in a park, in the bookstore, wherever. You are doing something OTHER than trolling for girls. Here is why you should approach: